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Marissa
I dated a lovely guy for about 2 months. The dates went really well and I could see it heading towards the direction of a relationship, but unfortunately his situation was a bit complicated. He was only in town for those few months for job interviews and has since moved to another state to finish school. We decided not to pursue a long distance situation since after graduating, his job might make him relocate. There’s also a chance he can get located back in my city. Unfortunately it’s not up to him, the company will choose the location but his top choice is back in my city. I asked him if he got the job in my city if he’d like to see me again and he said yes. We haven’t really been in communication but have each other on social media and he’s always watching my stories.
If he gets the job in my city I’d love to see him and date him again. But do you think I should wait for him to reach out first?
AngieBaby
Since you’re connected on social media, you don’t do a thing. And you don’t “wait.” You keep living your life. He knows where you are and how to reach you. If he gets the job and moves back, he’ll be in touch at the point he wants to see you. Back waaaay off. You’re already too far ahead of him. And you don’t know if he just said that to be polite. Only his action of contacting you will show if he’s truly interested in trying again.
Liz Lemon
What AngieBaby said. Just wait for him to reach out first. You’re getting ahead of yourself here. For now, just live your life and don’t wait for him- date other guys. You have no idea if he’ll even wind up in your city– if he does, and he’s interested in you, he’ll reach out. You’re not a stranger he met once, you’re someone he dated for 2 months. So he’s not going to forget that you live in your city. If he winds up in your city and wants to see you again, he will reach out. In the meantime, just continue living your life and dating other guys- don’t put yourself on hold for him.
Marissa
Oh, I didn’t mean waiting in that sense. I am dating other people in the meantime, I just meant wait as in let him be the one to initiate the contact and not me be the one to initiate it.
mama
Yes, wait for him to contact you. By doing so, if/when he reaches out, you’ll immediately know he’s interested and that will take some of the guesswork out of this.
Good luck!
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