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Diane.
Harley
Sorry Diane…guess he just couldn’t do it. I think it best you move on and in time learn from this. ..hard lesson learned…but you WILL benefit from it in future relationships. and if he cannot forgive …maybe it does not bode well for how he would have handled things in the future.
Sassperilla
Diane, I’m not really clear on what happened here – did you possibly bring things up again when it was not necessary?
Diane
So before the fight, we would spend every Saturday together…
This time, no words… So satueday night i reached out and asked him if he wanted to meet..and that is how the whole conversation started .
Diane
“Update” for all your wonderful ladies…..
So he was at work from 7 to 8 yesterday, but we talked for 2 hours after work… The reconciliation feels more real this time….he is finally moving past the anger/hurt….
I did most of the reaching out in the last 2 weeks, and felt like had I not done that, we would still be in a Cold War today….time for me to cut back a little and let him get back in the driver seat…..
Learned my lesson, but especially learned a lot about him and how to get along
Thanks to all and best luck to all.
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