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Kish
A strange incident happened with a guy I have been dating for a few weeks. One day we were texting and he accidentally sent me a screenshot of a number he had called 4 times and the call had gone unanswered. And he had written on the picture: what is this? He deleted it and said he was sending it to his brother. I don’t know why i had a strange feeling about that number so i dialled it and a female answered. I asked her if she knew him from work or was a friend. She said neither then she asked me who am I? I told her we’ve been dating. She said she is his fiance but she has given him the permission to make gfs as she doesn’t live in the same city. Then the call got disconnected.
Afterwards the guy I am dating called me in 5 minutes and said that it was his sister and she was playing with me and since he belongs to a conservative Muslim family all hell has broken loose in the family, and that i shouldn’t have called the number it’s like invading his privacy. He tried to convince me a lot and has said that he will make me meet his sister to prove that it was really his sister. But don’t you think it’s weird?
Raven
RUN AWAY
You know this guy is up to no good…Gaia
He got busted and is gaslighting. Get a whole new man. He’s lying. No way his fiance is allowing him to have GF unless he’s been open that he’s poly with you which it sounds like he hasn’t mentioned that. And no way it was his sister messing with you. It sounds like she (the fiance) was just as confused and I bet it caused an uproar on his end when she confronted him.
Are you ok with your bf getting married? Do you want to be the side chic or mistress?
You can do better.
mama
You’ve been dating the guy for “a few weeks”. That’s not a long time.
I feel like if you’re suspicious enough to be tempted to call a sketchy number, that should be enough to walk away. Actually calling seems a bit too much — you only have been dating a few weeks.
This is next level bs from him though, to be sure.
AngieBaby
Please don’t be stupid and fall for this BS. No one’s “sister” says things like that. You caught him in a big lie – be grateful it happened now rather than months or years from now. Kick him to the curb, no further comment to him needed. Just block him and forget it.
Maddie
I once had an ex, who I thought was trying to rekindle things and texted me quite a bit, text me something that was CLEARLY meant for a new woman he was dating. I called him out on it, he gaslighted me and insisted it didn’t happen and that I never received that text at all! Anyway, he was lying. He went public with their relationship a month or two later even though he was still talking to me (so I bailed out because I could no longer deny that he was selfish and disrespectful towards women…) and eventually married her. If your gut is saying something is fishy and doesn’t add up, LISTEN TO YOUR INSTINCTS. If your instincts are saying you shouldn’t trust him and his story doesn’t add up or he’s overexplaining and making something that should be simple complicated, listen to your gut. Good guys who are serious about you don’t confuse you.
Get rid of this guy.
tammy
Pls discontinue with this guy. It’s just been few weeks so it will not be that difficult. I agree with one of the posters above who said that if you were suspicious enough to call that number and check, shows you have some doubts deep down. Don’t ignore that. And come on why will a sister of all people tell you that she’s his fiancé? which sister would pose as his brother’s fiancé? he’s fibbing. and why would there be an uproar in his house if you called his sister? this all drama doesn’t add up nor make much sense. ANd when things don’t make sense, you need to run. disengage and block his number.
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