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Raven.
Jim
My girlfriend and her ex are going through a custody battle. He is using me one of the reasons to withhold custody. I only met their daughter a few times about a year ago. We do not live together and I have nothing to do with the caretaking of thier daughter. He has admitted to breaking into her iCloud account and reading all of our text messages. He also has admitted to showing photos of her that were taken when they were a couple to other people.I have never met him or had any contact with him and he keeps bringing me up at EVERY court hearing and continues to slander me. He said I am dangerous but does not have a legitimate reason as to why. I have a good job and no criminal record. He has an unhealthy obsession with me and none of this is of any relevance to the custody case. Please let me know what my legal rights are in regards to this.
Gaia
You should contact a lawyer not a relationship forum.
AngieBaby
Are you going to court and hearing this first hand, or are you getting it from your GF? No one here is a lawyer. You need to hire a lawyer to get valid advice. First thing to do is ask your GF’s lawyer’s opinion on the situation as it stands and if he or she cannot or will not represent you, ask for a referral.
To the best of my knowledge, the fact that your GF is dating you (and you aren’t living together) has no bearing on custody, unless her ex has concrete proof that you are some kind of serious threat to the child’s wellbeing.
All anyone here can do is speculate. You’re the one with all the facts – take it to a lawyer and work with your GF to decide what if any action needs to be taken on your part.
Tallspicy
Talk to a lawyer, no one here can help you for something like this.
Jim
I read the depositions, that’s how I know. Her lawyer said that I have nothing to do with the case and not to worry about it but I am concerned about my job if he starts showing up.
Liz Lemon
If he shows up at your job, get a restraining order. Hopefully he isn’t stupid enough to do that. It would reflect very badly for him in the custody battle, he should know better.
Raven
Hire a lawyer…
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