Space or break up

I’ve been dating my bf for 2.5 years. We were quarantining together for the past 3 weeks. Last week, on Thursday he began being all mad and angry and I tried asking him what was wrong and why he’s mad to no avail. He won’t talk about it and instead said things to me like not interested in talking and in you. So I backed off, let him have his space to cool down and he did but the next day he was still super pissed. So I tried asking again and I got the same answers. Later that night, he was on his phone and I gave him hours of space so I came downstairs to talk about it and he said to me the same answer. So he walked away from his desk and I grabbed his phone and that’s when he flipped out and went upstairs to grab my phone and told me to “ give Back his phone” and I told him sure, if you give me mine. Long story short, he put me on a headlock and called the cops saying I assaulted him. Cops came and said this is silly and immature and you guys are adults and should work out your problems. I left his place with some of my belongings because he told the cops that his wish is for me to leave tonight and go back to my place. So I went home and called him while I was On my way home and he told me he was sorry he called the cops and he didn’t mean to. I told him let’s talk about it tmr morning I’ll come over and he agreed and we hung up. Then at midnight I get a text saying for me not to come over and he doesn’t want to talk. So I told him that he should keep his words. So next morning I told him it’s fine you don’t need talk but I have my stuff in your house ( underwear clothes) that I need cause I don’t have anything at mine so I neee some of those things back and just to leave it at the front porch. He ignored my calls etc and I had to ask his best friend telling them that I need some ofcmy stuff, which he told them he will deliver to my place at 8pm. So he showed up and I tried to talk to him about us and he told me, I don’t want to talk and not ready to talk and I will call you when I’m ready to talk. I need some space from us to think and he used the excuse of me being w my cousin that he needs 2 weeks of Quarantine from me since he doesn’t know where My cousin has been to. And he will talk in 2 weeks time. I still love him a lot and I want our relationship to work… we have an age gap of 14 years and it was never an issue. What should I do? I haven’t contacted him over a week since he said he needs space to think. What if he doesn’t contact me after 2 weeks? Should I reach out? I still have things in his place I need to get back. Please ladies /gents give me some advice here.