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    Sally

    Hello,

    So I’ve been talking/seeing this guy I met on a dating site since February . It honestly has been wonderful since, we seem to have lots to talk about, and everything really clicks. We flirt and really enjoyed our in person dates.

    We’ve been just texting everyday and doing FaceTime dates here and there since the outbreak. And even though texting has slowed down we still seem to Still enjoy talking to each other. At one point he told me he wants to take this slow and that he likes to date a person awhile To get to really know them before making the move to exclusivity but that he hates dating and really wants a serious relationship .

    But he has also mentioned me potentially meeting his friends and family one day. And brought up that exclusivity might be in our future hopefully. I never brought it once have you know, I never want to be pushy.

    But I have noticed I do see him active on the dating site where we met here and there. And I know he’s not my boyfriend but it honestly kind of bothers me and makes me question if he really means that he thinks there’s a possibility for us.

    I still try and talk to other men because I know he’s probably talking to other women and I’m trying really hard not to get to hung up on him which I already kinda am. I don’t know if this is just normal behavior on his part and I need to let him be or are these red flags?

    #789455 Reply
    Newbie

    I dont see any red flags in what you wrote. Except that he maybe talks a bit too much about the future (yellow flag): could be a sign he is a future faker. If you started to date in february and we got locked in since half march, i say that is too soon to talk about gf/bf. If you have sex i think its normal to agree only to have sex with each other while getting to know someone better.
    There is not much you can do except sit it out and do as much as you can for yourself

    #789550 Reply
    Phoebe

    Eh I don’t know what kind of guy is thinking about exclusivity in the future and having you meet his friends blah blah but is still talking to other women on a dating site. I’d say he isn’t that serious.

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