Strange things

I started seeing a guy recently from a dating app. We hit it off and have been seeing each other often. I went to his house one night last week and we had sex but I worked early the next day so I didn’t stay over. He asked me to come over Friday to sleep over.

I went to his house, he told me he lived in a casita behind his friend’s house. When I was there it had a very Air Bnb vibe. I brought it up a few times and he said he’s lived there for 8 months. I ended up with a bladder infection, and I was in the restroom a lot Saturday morning. I asked if he had coffee and he had a bag with a little coffee but nothing to make it in. He said he usually goes to Starbucks. So I said can you pick it up for me? He said he didn’t want to leave me there alone out of respect for the home owners—that he hadn’t brought anyone home in 8 months since he has been there. So I thought that was weird. So he asks me to drive to Starbucks which I also thought was weird.

I looked up his job on his linked in and I can’t find the company. I don’t know what to think of all of this. I invited him to a Xmas party at my house and he said he didn’t want to be around my friends who would ask him a million questions. So I said what about NYE and he said he would have to see what his schedule looks like (for work). He squs he works in construction sales…. Anyways, I can’t quite figure out what is going on here.