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JR
The best one I fell for it too, I was suckered in by this quote followed by consistent dating and amazing gentleman skills. I had not had sex him yet. We would send PG raged pics of each other but that’s it. Sooo what got me was, “I just don’t have the girl yet”. after 3-4 months of dating I gave in with that line. A few days later we had sex.
redcurleysue
LOL. Are we not all suckers for a good sentence at the right time. Timing is everything or it will not pull you in.
How do they do it? I don’t know but if I could bottle and sell it…..
Eric CharlesKeymasterI can tell you: you do it to yourself…
You have a bunch of ideas and movies in your mind of some scenario that you want to play out in your life…
It’s been drilled into your mind through the western culture: music, movies, stories, etc.
So all the guy needs to do is say the magic key phrase that reminds you of one of those romantic scenes and you think, “Oh my God, it’s happening to me!!!” and you run away into fantasy land all because he said a trigger phrase…
If a guy can get you to start thinking about being romantic with you, he’s got you… and if he’s skillful, you won’t see that he triggered off your thinking down that path.
Not that I would know anything about any of this (insert angel face and devil face emoticon) hehe
Mistral
Thing is, we can all make our dreams come true if we only allow ourselves to take the risk of loving someone as they are and not as our fears tells us they should behave…
I’ve been truly blessed in my life to have known the love of and loved 4 wonderful men…2 are what i consider Twin Flames and 2 my Soul Mates–men I loved but more as a life partner than that crazy, mad love that lasts for eternity…those are my twin flames…one from way back in my youth and my current boyfriend.
All it really takes is being truly open to love and once you find it, having the courage to stick it out because the actions are true even if the words aren’t really there…
Actions really do speak louder than words but there is also something to be said for having empathy for our partners when they are going through a rough time and letting them sort things out in their own time.
All in all, the real secret for me is to treat my boyfriend the way I want him to treat me…with dignity and respect.
JR
Well Thank you EC!
Fine, I did get all caught up in it and felt special. I hate that cause I typically don’t watch or read romantic shows/movies/books. I totally fell hard lol. Oh well good experience and didn’t regret any of it except my own mindset, but learned.
Flower
The problem i think, is that most of us want to feel week in our knees, and so enjoy this ‘artificial’ attention. When a guy doesnt do it for us on that level, but we know he is a good guy for us on most of the other levels, we Will still go for the ‘bad’ boy, and yes, get sucked in. Cause it is very rare to find someone who is very close to the same level of our attraction we have for them, on a constant basis in time, and this inbalance causes that someone gets hurt. Dont have the remedy yet for that though, Maybe, dont show it dont say it (that you like them so much and that you are sensible to their phrases) at least at the beginning?!
Rose
I know a bunch of those quotes now and I can recognize the new ones and probably roll my eyes a little when I hear them.
Some other dudes write a whole mini poem in every text and then when you are with them in person they can’t put two sentences together, lol
Anyways, takes practice to learn to differentiate honest talk from bs.
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