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Vera
hi all,
I am dating a guy who is separated (I wrote a separate post about this before) . On our third date he essentially asked me to be exclusive . I freaked out initially and then eventually said ok because it’s fine for me to just focus on one person and also it’s a lockdown anyways so it’s not like we can really meet new people for at least the next month .
I just noticed in the past few days he isn’t being as forthcoming with the texting and isn’t texting as much. I’ve only know him 3 weeks but he came on quite strong at the beginning . I do think he still likes me and he’s gone home for the holidays but seems he wants to see me when he’s back and doesn’t really want to connect while he’s away.
Should I just chill? Am I reading too much Into things ?
What do you guys think about texting while dating anyways ? I don’t even like the back and forth . As long as I know a guy cares. The only thing is I seem to think a guy not texting means not caring . He did ask to speak with me on the phone before he left but I was going out with some friends so we said we would chat when he’s back.Newbie
I just read the other post where you said you would be chill and keep your eyes open and yet, 3 weeks after knowing this guy you are here questioning his texting habits during the holidays where you both agreed you would catch up when he got back. So it does feel youre attached already. While you should watch him for at least 2 months to see if he is consistent. No one here can tell you how this will end. You took a change knowing this guy is not divorced yet and you agreed to being exclusive. I would have never done that with a guy i sort of know for around 8 hours by then. But alas.
So no one can tell you if this guy will be a good match or even stay around long enough for you to know.
Its highly unlikely this guy is attached to you at this point. That needs time to develop. So him not texting can mean, he is not in, he is not a texter, he is busy. Take your pick.
You should Google seven steps guys fall in love to realize this is still all quick sand atm. But who knows, it can work out. Meanwhile you need to work on finding new hobbiesVera
Thanks for your reply . You’re right . He probably was infatuated before and now it seems he is normal . I’ll relax and see what happens .
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No that half my point. You know this guy a blip long so there is no established normal yet. The relax part yes and have a Merry christmas
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