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Maria
When I reply with a smile I want to be polite and reply to the person, but I don’t want to continue texting all the time. Next time he will reach out…or not. Do not contact him. Make him work for your attention, do not give out your energy and your time so easily. Understand that he is talking to several girls at a time, and the one who is NOT into him will get his attention the most.
Sal
I remember a time, before emojis *sticks out tongue*
Conversation consists of words, better in person because you also read body language and can hear tone. Emojis are fun and light hearted, and not a substitute for conversation. They can be misread, and over analysed.
Call the guy, and talk like humans.
caetru
A lot of times we can answer our own questions if we turn the question around to ourselves. Why would you only sent an emoji while texting? I will send an emoji because I don’t really have a response but I might want to convey that I thought the last text was funny, silly, romantic, evil, made me feel good, etc. It’s not to purposely end the conversation, but I don’t have anything else say but I want to acknowledge the last text. If I want to end the conversation I will actually say “talk to you later” or not respond at all.
caetru
If you have more to say after he sends just an emoji then go ahead and text back. Pretty simple. If he stops responding the conversation is over.
I wouldn’t ask a guy out directly after only one date since he could say yes just to be nice. You want to find out what his interest level is at this point and make sure he’s not a time waster or putting you on the back burner. You can prompt him by letting him know what a great time you had on your last date. Or ask if he has any exciting plans for the weekend and that should prompt him ask you the same and if really interested he will set up a second date. I found that the guys who are really interested would actually asked me if I would like to go on another date at the end of the first date and set it up and set it up within a week or so.
Definitely continue to date others and keep busy. You don’t want to put all of your emotional eggs in one basket so soon.
Lenna
So, haha ironically killed the conversation with an emoji just before. After I posted this the next day he imitated contact again.
I definitely think I was overthinking and over analysing the texts. I get that it doesn’t matter how many texts I get. It doesn’t measure anything. I just have to sit back and enjoy it for what it is.
I will keep you ladies updated.
Many thanks for al your kind advice and help. XxLenna
So, haha I ended up ironically killed the conversation with an emoji just before.
Update: After I posted this the next day he imitated contact again.
I definitely think I was overthinking and over analysing the texts. I get that it doesn’t matter how many texts I get. It doesn’t measure anything. I just have to sit back and enjoy it for what it is.
I will keep you ladies updated.
Many thanks for all your kind advice and help. XxAshley
Hey,
Exact same situation as Lenna, we were speaking lots before went out had a great time. Still speaking until yesterday he just sent laughing faces to my last message. He was snapchatting throughout the day, he has a busy life and I didn’t respond.
But I’m not sure if I should just forget it, I’m not the type to keep messaging. I thought we got on we’ll but will pulling back work?
Raven
Ashley, what do you think would happen if you didn’t pull back?
Rachel
You send a thank you text not expecting a response to a beautiful message he sent you. You believe the ‘relationship’ is over. You sign of with ‘bye x’. He replies with an emoji blowing you a kiss. What does it mean? Goodbye, right? I’m fuming.
Crisula
OP July 2016
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