The Fade Away ?

Harley’s right. Do nothing. Don’t make it easy for him. See! When you move on and you don’t need them, they pick it up energetically. If they are going to come back, that is when they will.

I’ve been seeing this guy for 5 months now. He’s 29 and I’m 33. We started as friends, texting everyday and then slowly became more…physically and emotionally. He’s sweet and caring and I can tell he really likes me. The only issue is he is extremely busy starting his own business and sometimes ignores me. The first thing he told me when we started seeing each other is that he is very busy and work takes up most, if not all of his time. So in the beginning I didn’t see as much of him, maybe once a week but texting everyday. Over the last two months though we’ve become much closer and every moment he’s free, we’re together. It’s been great! That was the case, until about two weeks ago..he became distant. We’re back to seeing each other once a week like in the beginning. The last time we were together it was great. Spent the night talking, laughing, kissing, cuddling and being intimate. That was four days ago and although we text daily, he takes hours to respond. This confuses me! I never act needy and if he doesn’t respond to me I never send a second text. I just have a weird feeling. I can’t help feeling that either he’s lost interest, or he’s pulling away because he’s scared of how close we’ve recently been getting. Am I being paranoid and crazy??? Is he truly just busy with work? (Probably lol) The other day I texted him in the AM, something cute which is totally normal and when 8:30pm rolled around with no response I simply wrote, “You ok?” He responded immediately with, “Yeah, why hehe.” I wrote back, “Just wanted to make sure :)” he didn’t respond after that. I feel like I should have been honest and said something along the lines of, “You seem distant..I know you’re working and need to be focused, but if it’s bc of me let me know. I’ll give you space and stop texting you if that’s what you want. No hard feelings ????.” Today we texted a little but I sent the last text and still have yet to get a response..should I take this as a hint? I’m definitey not going to contact him until he reaches out to me, so I guess that will answer my question but would love your insight! Sorry so long and hope this makes sense..typed it in a hurry! Just feels good to let out my frustration:)