To those who have ghosted or been ghosted after months?

If you feel like it will be too much to see him, you don’t have to. You can respond back and say, something has come up and I cannot get my sweatshirt, don’t really need it that badly.

I personally, wouldn’t ghost anyone. Theres a better way to do bad things. I think, regardless of how you are treated, you do the right thing, because you’re a good person. Even if you send a “it’s over” text, or a basic means to an end. Communicating your exit is a must. What you do thereafter is entirely your call. Go no contact, block them etc, thats your call. However I personally feel its the RIGHT thing to do by communicating its ended.

Wanting or hoping for someone to wonder & never have that closure? Shows your character more than anything.