Told him there's no connection

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February 23, 2020 at 12:43 pm #786030 Reply

Alanna

Dated this guy from work for awhile. We work on different floors. I got fed up with his hot and cold, disappearing for weeks and not even a text to say merry xmas. Felt rather unimportant to him.

Decided to cut ties and move on. One day he sent a text asking to go for coffee. I said no, I dont feel a connection with him anymore. He said he respected my honesty. Then nothing more from him in while. I thought great.

However he recently texted again to say he has some special cooking spoons and they are mine if I like. I said no.

The next week he offered a ride home after work. I said no.

Was I not clear enough that I dont want this anymore? There’s no connection is what said and I also keep saying no to this dude.

February 23, 2020 at 3:29 pm #786036 Reply

Franny

A lot of guys are like little boys and want what they can’t have.

If you’re asking because you don’t know how to get him to stop bugging you, just tell him you’re still not interested and that a friendship with him isn’t something you want either.

If you’re asking because you’re wondering why he would keep trying, it’s because some guys (and gals too tbh) want what is off limits or if they keep trying you’ll change your mind.
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