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amy
How much do you think men pick up on your energy/vibes?
There have been several instances where I’ve felt that I was acting the same, but felt needy on the inside and the guy appeared to behave slightly differently toward me. I coudlnt figure it out because I dont think I was SAYING anything needy or DOING anything needy, but it was almost like they picked up on my vibe.
HarleyA guy can sense it like a bloodhound sniffer dog. .sometimes it’s facial expressions a girl makes or her body language. ..sitting uptight. .wringing her hands…drinking too fast…talking too fast..It can be all or one.
mariaIt all depends on how sensitive the guy is to energies/vibes, how intuitive he is and if he’s good at reading body language and all the other “signs” people give away that tells you stuff about them…
Some guys (people) are really good at this, whereas others are totally clueless…
amyyeah, i used to think a guy would not notice if I felt needy on the inside if i was acting the same…but i guess there have also been some instances wher I would stop stressing/caring so much for a guy I was once pineing over; and instantly it was like he got struck by cupid and was suddenly telling me and doing all the things I’d always wished for.
I wasn’t sure if this was purely coincidence or truly was a result of them picking up on my energy
amyI’d like to think i’m a pretty good actress when it comes to hiding any neediness of insecurity i’ve felt, as i pay attention to my body language but maybe these guys were pretty intuitive.
SassperillaThe one I’ve been seeing says he can read me like a book. And to be fair he has been spot on with his observations when I have been trying to be ‘fine’ on the outside but anxious and wound up on the inside.
He does have three sisters so that could be how he’s so observant.
However I wonder if he will be intuitive enough to know he’s getting dumped tonight!
RMFI definitely think so. Especially if you guys are connected. When I’m feeling some type of way my guy will just blurt out “Stop getting so emotional.” or “Calm down.” And this is without me saying a word or changing my expression. Just thoughts
amyThanks for your responses. I always like to think men can’t pick up on this but I guess they really can.
With a guy I’m currently seeing, he started out extremely attentive and emotionally open when we were together. Then, since I really liked him, I began to over-invest. The dynamic and vibe between us instantly changed. I was shocked since I’d been very consciouncious of my behavior around him, but he must have picked up on it. THe last time I saw him I felt more in control of my emotions on the inside, and magically he was much more affectionate than he had been.
Sassperilla, good luck tonight!
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