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cindy cooper.
roma
just for a hope that may be he will reward after my texting?
Raven
So Roma, what is that reward exactly?
Roma
reward is that he value me and reply and chat with me. isn’t it?
Roma
If not then how do i stop myself to do not text him? do u have any idea to stop myself? because i want to forget him and i also don’t want to contact him as he is doing with me and i am trying to keep myself busy in other works but whatever work i do he comes to my mind all the time which is bothering me and i want relief from his thoughts.
L
Ummm.. self control? Sort of like when you hold it in and not lose control of your bowels.
Roma
Hmm I am trying but its too hard to do bc I really love him allot and don’t want to loose him.
Crisula
How about growing up, getting a grip, having some self control and realizing that you’re making a damn fool of yourself?
Are they valid enough deterrents?
Roma
yes very true.
Roma
sometimes few things can not be in our hand just like loving and liking someone but I am trying to keep myself away from him and I hope it will work.
Roma
I hate him bc he is using me to help him in doing work for her girlfriend. I couldn’t understand that he is using me and he already has a girlfriend. I thought he likes me and feeling comfortable with me that’s why he always asks me to help him but now I realized that he is using me and making me fool. any suggestion that how can I nicely refuse him to help him?
Roma
For his girlfriend*
Raven
Roma Honey, it’s not necessary to be nice to a cheeter!
roma
Raven, actually that is the big issue that I can’t decide either he is cheating with me or not bc he cares me allot and discuss with me on his every personal matter. Do you know any signs which can show that he is cheating me? or just passing his time with me?
Raven
Honey, he has a girlfriend.
roma
But he denies that she is his girlfriend. He says he is only helping her in her work and he has no relationship/feelings for her.That’s why I can’t decide that is he interested in her or in me?
Jose
Jesus Christ. Roma this relationsship sound more worrying than fun and lovely. You need to get some selfcontrol and perhaps some selfworth too. You are all over this guy, and acts like some 14 year teenage girl who just got her first crush. Im not saying its a bad thing to be in love, but unless you actually are some 14 year old, you need to take yourself together and not make him the center of your world. Find your own happiness before you go out and start dating, if he wants a break goddamn give him one. It shouldnt be that hard not to text him, just dont freaking text him.
Raven
Roma,
Is he taking you out? Consistently?
What happens when you go quiet?
Who is this guy & how do you know him?
roma
yes mostly he asks me to go out and we just spend a lot of time together in chit chat in my car and eating something at restaurants. we work in the same field that’s why we know each other.
roma
dating is a pleasure but sometimes need to stop dating and loving someone. what’re the other views about it guys?
Phillygirl
It sounds like this guy has a GF. That should be ALL you need to know. As is “buh-bye dude, see ya”.
No one can use you without your permission. You seem to have a victim mentality like you have no control over yourself or this situation. It’s called boundaries, and sadly it sounds like you have NONE.
Tell him to leave you alone. Once you tell him. IGNORE, DELETE, BLOCK. NO ONE IS MAKING YOU DO ANY OF THIS. You choose to.
Get some self respect and learn the wonderful art of saying NO, and meaning it.
You are taking a no brainer situation, and making it difficult. It isn’t, you are allowing all this nonsense. Quit it.
cindy cooper
I am having the same problem. Met a guy 2 month ago who only wanted a physical
relationship. Now he doesn’t want that with my incessant text, probably, and my dealing
with like I did my ex. I feel like I don’t have any self-control. I wonder if an antidepressant
can make someone obsessive-compulsive. Hate myself.
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