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So a few months back I matched with a guy on Facebook’s new dating-forum. We decided to meet up shortly after. We went for a drive and had very good talks. We seemed to have similar values and goals, and he followed up the same night, asking to see me again. He made it clear that he is very busy at the moment with studies and work. He got of work one Sunday and we were supposed to meet for the second time. His boss who is the only other employee at his job had a chold sick so he cancelled. I got annoyed since I had just spent time getting ready, and I expressed this. Later we talked it out, and I acknowledged that I could have been more understanding to his situation. The next time we were supposed to meet we made plans, and again something came up, and he first told me he would call in an hour to confirm. When an hour and a half passed I called him 3 or 4 times without response, for him to later text saying he doesnt believe he’s able to give me whar I need.
Now its been a while, and we since then unfollowed each other on Instagram, but some days ago I requested to follow him just to see what would happen. It took him 5-7 days to accept, and at the same time request to follow me. What confuses me now, is that a few hours after I accepted his request he removed me as his follower and quit following me. My girlfriends believe he just wants attention since I didnt DM him. But I’m not sure.
Raven
Bluntly: Why are you still engaging with this guy, are you desperate?
Marie
I had a guy i was dating do this same thing to me. He was probably just curious to see what you were up too. Hes just playing mind games with you. Don’t give him anymore of your time. Move on to the next guy. You deserve better!
Liz Lemon
What Raven said. Why did you even request to follow this guy after what happened? No offense but it sounds like you’re the one seeking attention.
The guy flaked on you, it happens all the time in dating. I think you should leave him alone and move on.
Tallspicy
So many levels of immaturity for both of you, I am saddened to stay. Yikes. Please channel your inner adult next time.
mama
Tallspicy, let’s give her some grace, shall we? You are usually really great at that! Also I think you meant *say, not ‘stay’.
Melanie
I’m sorry but you NEED TO STOP.
Is obvious he’s not interested. Plus you acting that way is making it worse.Erin
He’s not interested and you’re just making things awkward and worse for yourself. Have some self respect and stop seeking this guy out. Just block him everywhere and act like he doesn’t exist.
Lane
Never become a stage 5 clinger! You are clinging onto a man who clearly has shown you has zero desire to ever date you again. Never give a man the opportunity to dump you twice! In the future, accept the man doesn’t want to date you, let him go, and only spend your time and energy on the guys who keep asking you out, and are clearly developing the feels for you :o)
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