We never spend time together.

Hi everyone. I have been with my guy for a few months now and things are ok. I just feel that we are off when it comes to communication. I may be “old school” but I like picking up the phone and having a conversation. He on the other hand is a texter. He can go an entire day without even hearing my voice but he sure will text me. I’m not talking about when he is busy I’m talking about the time when i ask him what he is doing and he replies that he just laying down and chilling. It’s a small gesture that I told him I liked, was to call even if it was not a long conversation. But now I am exhausted telling me how I feel so I just not give him what he wants and go with the flow. If he wants to text all day and days after that and not pick up and talk then fine smh. I gave up at this point. Another issue is I literally feel like I’m in a long distance relationship. We stay 20 mins apart and I only see him once every two weeks. He has his child every other week. I’m being patient but it’s taking it toll on me. While we were dating and getting to know each other he dropped a bomb on me saying he found out a woman he was messing with just had a baby. Months later I gave him a try at a relationship after he informed me that he will not allow it he child to interfere. I’m a person who likes to be around their significant other as much as I can. However, in this I can’t I only have to deal with seeing him once every two weeks (IF THAT). I’m literally on his schedule whenever we see each other. I have other obligations like I have custody of my niece and if him and I hang out I make sure I have her a sitter lined up. I make that time. So it like I’m stuck with seeing him on that stern schedule. I would’ve thought I would at least get conversations when he knows I’m going with seeing him on his terms. That’s the least he could’ve done. Every two weeks spending time together and when we not I barely can get him on the phone to talk to me, just sit there and text. But he always always says he misses me and this other stuff. Im just lost on what to do at this point.