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mary
Hi all,
Had a first meeting with someone at the weekend, it went well we had drinks, he paid, after we went for a walk, hugged hello and goodbye
45 mins or so after the date i get a text from him saying ‘ i had a good time, hopefully do it again sometime!’ didn’t expect to hear from him on my way home, i thought it was nice, replied i did too and thanked him again for my drink.
is this an empty parting text? or is he legit and actually wants to do it again? from one past experience the guy never followed up and we both just exist on social medias lol
so yeah, just a basic polite text or actually meant it?
thanks yall
NewbieI dont know but it sounds very casual to me. By itself not a bad thing, compared to the over the top chasers who in general disappear very fast. You see if he contacts you again
redcurleysueThere is no way to know if he means it or was being polite.
But, I give the guy kudos for manners.
maryi think so too, just wondering if this was something said thats just an empty remark ynno?
he hasnt replied to my text so we’ll see i suppose
would just be a bummer and effect my self esteem if he chose not to
AshleyIt could go either way but more importantly you need solid self-esteem that isn’t affected by guys who you don’t even know. You’re awesome so try not to focus on it! Let guys come to you & lead, don’t stress the rest
BettyPlease don’t even give a thought as to what his next move will be. And don’t text or call him, or reach out to him in any way. One date and you’re already stressing over stuff that hasn’t even happened yet. Go on with your life. If he wants to see u he’ll get in touch with u.
KhadijaOnly time will tell if he meant that.
Try not to over think a first date because you never know what it could turn into.
Also, please try to have a tougher skin for dating. A man not following up after one date should not be able to effect your self esteem in anyway.
I understand that dating these days can be filled with disappointments but,you cannot take it personally. Stay positive.
You have to learn to just say next whenever a guy shows he is not for you.
LoriThis is another case of words versus action. Like everybody else is saying, don’t stress to much about the meaning of this. In fact, don’t even think about it at all. You are unnecessarily investing time and emotions only after one meeting
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