We texted every single day, all day long. Now less often. What's his deal?

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April 4, 2016 at 5:22 am #522486 Reply

Hannah

Having lost a parent, would yup really want someone you hardly knew to be your rock, or would you turn to close family and friends that know you better and knew your parent? I would turn to my friends and away from getting to know new people personally. For example, he can’t turn to you to laugh about things is dad did as you never met his dad. Let him know you are thinking about him, but realise you can only be there for him if he wants you to be.

April 4, 2016 at 7:12 am #522501 Reply

ChocolateBrownies

Yeah that’s what i have been doing, just hope that’s not too annoying to him, cause I’m just trying to help!

thank you so much for your advice, I’ll try 3-weeks and see how things go, i really like this guy, we’ve been talking for a while now, just hope hes OK.

i know where you’re coming from Hannah, but I’m just thinking of how i coped, i know not everyone grieves the same, i just thought it might help him. I’m just probably an odd one that likes to talk a lot, and i feel better talking about my mum.

i had just accepted a new job offer while my mum was ill, and started my new job about 3-weeks after mum died, the new work team knew about mum and talked openly about her then too, i didn’t know any of these guys at all.

Thank you guys!
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