Weird accusations

Lately I feel like my boyfriend I’ve been with for quite a while has been disvaluing. I left a toxic job in healthcare after 7 years. With his support. It really wasn’t me adding to the toxicity, it was just a place that had gone sour and I needed to move on. Now I’m in a very corporate job with stringency but a lot of gray area for them to come down on you. I explained a situation I’m dealing with and he said “you have a problem with authority.” Later I asked why he thought I had a problem with authority—I had been at my last job for 7 years and my new one finding my way for several months. He just reiterated the same statement. I feel like that was cruel and harsh. What do you think? I feel like he is kind of pushing me off a pedestal or something. It makes me upset,