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Emily.
Emily
There’s this guy that has been chasing me for years. The reason why I went on this date is because over the past 7 months we have been talking, and I have been entertaining him , unlike in the past. Make a long story short I went finally gave in went on the date with him. For our date we went on a walk to look at some Christmas lights…. Don’t worry this was my idea !! He seen me gave me a hug , we started walking around got tired so we sat on the bench. He started checking me out told me to come closer and we cuddled. He also was rubbing my legs and touching my face. He stated to me that I looked very comfortable with him ? I fixed my purse and when I look up he staring into my soul ! Like a deep blank stare….. I asked him what ? Then he asked me if get a lot of compliments? Which I don’t know why he asked me that ?
Then All of a sudden he ends the date early says he has to go. Never heard from him again ?
Raven
Answered on the other post… He’s a dud!
Emily
@Raven
Where was my post I can’t find it ?
Raven
It was on the tail of another thread…
I said the same thing- He’s a dud & not worth the airtime you’re giving him.
Emily
@Raven
Yeah your right . I though the whole date was kinda strange, from him staring at me deeply to him leaving early.
Why would he ask me if I received a lot of compliments?
Liz Lemon
You shouldn’t waste your energy obsessing over this guy. Who knows why he did what he did, or why he said what he said. He ghosted you, just let it go. It sounds like it was an awkward date anyway.
Raven
The more ‘airtime’ you give guys like this, the less time you have for more important things.
In this guy’s case, you could be napping & still be more productive…
Emily
Well I can feel how I want to feel ! Even though I didn’t like him it was definitely a ego hit ! I feel like my feelings are very Valid. I know I should forget about and trust me I will. I feel played and like my time was wasted yes it was just 1 date … but also 3 years of chasing me and 7 months of talking . Thanks for the advice
Emily
He didn’t ghost me because he got blocked !
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