What can I do if he is taking longer to contact me and plan dates now.

I think dating in the early stages is both the most exciting and the most anxious! Because we like someone, we get a crush (even if we’re multi dating) and we don’t always know how they really feel about us. You just have to do your best at tending to YOU and your wonderful life the whole time you are participating in dating. And when a man gets distant is your great-big-cue to get hyper-focused back on yourself, dating others or just gettin busy.

Of course it may sting a little. Especially if it’s been 6-12 weeks, but once you date often enough and get SUPER particular about what you want from a man and from a relationship —it gets easier. You’ll find yourself getting really turned off and losing interest in men who get distant or stop courting you. But be calm. Yes, he could be losing interest. Or he could be having a stressful week or other personal thing and may bounce back. You WILL KNOW eventually if he’s crumbing you or just plain disappearing and then you can ACT. For yourself. Until then, live happily as you can – investing in you, watch his actions and observe. Let HIM LEAD. He’ll show you what he’s about. And you’ll be OK no matter what.