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Sarah
I have been seeing this Italian guy for around a month and a half now and I met up with him 5 times. We usually meet up in the evening time and go out and then I end up staying with him for the night. Last time after we slept together he mentioned how he liked relationships because you don’t have to use condoms and then he told me how he was in a 3 and a half year relationship and then asked me about my past relationships. I was a bit surprised because we have never really talked about this sort of thing and it has made me realise that I have no idea where this is going and what his intentions are with me. I did not think about it earlier as I felt it was too early too even think about labelling things but now I can’t stop thinking about it. I am pretty useless when it comes to dating so I don’t really know how to move forward. I would grateful if I could have some advice on what you guys think his intentions are with me and if you think he might be interested in having more than just a fling with me or not. We don’t text everyday and only see each other about once a week because he is really busy with work during the week so personally I don’t know if he can be that interested in me, because surely he would want to see more often and text me more ? Next time I see him I’m going to ask him what he is looking for as he has now been single for 2 years and to hopefully find out whether or not he actually wants something with me. Anyway, any advice on what he might be thinking or what I should at this do at this stage would be greatly appreciated x
RavenAre you using birth control?
SarahNo I am not at the moment.
MaddieSounds like he prefers not using condoms, and is still getting to know you. I wouldn’t read into it more than that yet. What do YOU want? It doesn’t hurt to ask what he’s looking for in general to make sure it lines up if you two both want to keep seeing each other.
Make sure you keep using protection!
SophiaWhy aren’t you using condoms? Has he recently been tested for STDs?
SarahI am using condoms because I’m not on birth control or anything.
SophiaSorry Sarah. I misunderstood.
tammyi think more than any relationship, he is thinking of getting into an arrangement with you, where you could have sex without condoms. many prefer without.
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