What Does "I'm Falling for You" Mean in Man-Speak

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October 19, 2015 at 12:03 pm #468641 Reply

Anna

Okay I am not stupid, I know that this means that he is falling for me. But…what does that really MEAN? Falling in love? Seeing a future? To a man, is this a big deal? Does this mean that I can quit playing dumb games like waiting for him to initiate contact and ask me out? We have not even been intimate because we are too busy enjoying these epic dates that we have gone on. We have been seeing each other for 7 weeks and this is the longest I have EVER held out physical intimacy in a relationship! I am crazy about him. I have met all of this family besides a few and he has met many of my friends and my Mother.

October 19, 2015 at 12:11 pm #468645 Reply

Maria

Unfortunately you can never stop “playing games”. Meaning that seduction can’t stop. You always need to keep a pulse on how much you are giving away versus how much you are getting. It is always give and take. Men want you more if you are always a little emotionally unavailable. Just enough for them to crave more. Same rules as with cats. Pet a cat a lot and it it will run away. Stop just when it starts purring loudly, make it jump off your laps and watch. The minute you sit down again, the cat will be right there! Men are very similar (and women too mind you).

So keep on doing what you’ve been doing. Keep him wanting, drive him crazy. Flirt, seduce, but do not give in, not just yet. He said he is falling, well, why not wait until he has fallen. lol. Whatever you’ve been doing worked, so keep on doing it. And enjoy! It is so nice when a guy falls for us.

October 19, 2015 at 12:55 pm #468662 Reply

Anna

Best analogy I have heard!!

October 19, 2015 at 1:58 pm #468679 Reply

Another Reader

My gosh, honestly does it matter? He is falling for you, this is a good thing. :)

For the initiating part – are you his gf? If so, then it would be time to stop and initiate as well. Nothing crazy, keep the same pace of conversation as you always have. It’ll probably make him happy to hear from YOU every once in awhile. :)

Enjoy the ride!
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