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Jen.
Maggie
Totally agree with you :)
good dancer
i have been researching Narcissism and men , he sounds like a narc.
Disappearing
having everything on his terms
not responding yet being ANGRY when you dont respond instantly
being punished (ie disappearing) when you voice concerns
and i havent even read this whole thread
Greenie
I agree with good dancer that this guy sounds like a narcissist. The disappearing act (which happens regularly) is not a good sign, he probably has someone else that he’s seeing when he’s not with you. (Or perhaps more than one woman.)
There is no “normal” amount of communication, but most couples communication at least one or more times daily unless they are fighting. The question is: what do YOU want? It makes no difference what’s normal for someone else or what they want, this is YOUR relationship and YOUR life. You need to speak up for your own needs and not just accept crumbs. If he is not capable of meeting your needs and desires then why be with him at all? Find someone who fits the bill, this guy is NOT going to change!
Greenie
*most couples communicate
redcurleysue
People are who they are…when they tell you or show you believe them.
We cannot and should not change anyone else…that is free will.
Either you can love him just the way things are right this minute or you need to walk. You should not get a Collie and wish they were a Panther.
Zee
Wow. Definitely, definitely, definitely. It’s going to take time to get used to getting back to your positive and natural energy again, but it’s worth the walk away now. Take this as a big note and forget thanking the people commenting here for you but you will definitely thank yourself later and –
THAT’S THE BEST FEELING AF. :D imagine feeling light and feminine again! And start right now. Connect yourself to all that’s worthy of your presence and your time.
Annie
I agree with boog. Especially the use of the term “trained”. He has trained you.
Kjay
If and when he calls back I would tell him it’s over , it’s even worse with long distance relationship , u can’t see him, you don’t know if he is hospitalise or dead it’s crazy
Jen
K jay
These threads you respond to are over a year old!
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