What is wrong with Scorpio men?

Dumped a scorpio because he was too hard to live with. Constantly wanting to know where I was and who I was with.

I couldn’t have any friends (Male or female) without him becoming paranoid for no reason.

Then there were his moods. Disappearing for days at a time and then throwing a fit when I asked where he was. Its like he can do whatever without questions asked. I was suspecting he had another woman on the side.

In the beginning he was a different person. I could do no wrong. It was all a mask. They are fake until that comes off.

Please run for the hills ladies!

I came across this thread while googling how to punish a Scorpio man. I am dating one from last year and a half. He has done a lot of horrible things to me. But I am sticking around because he tells me that he loves me and want to be with me forever. Whereas in all the arguments he very cleverly makes it look like my fault all the time.

We are supposed to be going to a wedding together on Saturday and he made me run to shops three times to get a dress of his liking but when it came to his outfit he said to me not to worry about it. When I insisted he made me go through his suits that are ten year old which no longer fit! When I suggested that he gets a budget suit he called me shallow. Told me that I think he is not good enough for me!i don’t love the man I love clothes!!! Where does all this exaggeration comes from? This happened after two weeks of fighting and arguing over other things. He always makes me cry and apologise! A day before he told me he is upsizing and moving into new house. He has the keys and bought furniture. Family has seen it. I was upset that being his girlfriend and recently partner he did not care to tell me. He said that he was worried I will tell his ex!! When I don’t even know her!! He said he can’t trust anyone! Then made me apologise for being upset over small things! If I don’t apologise things don’t move here.

Tonight we ended the call with me saying that I am not going to the wedding with him and will talk about ending relationship in the morning.

I need to know how can I handle him from here onwards. Arguing with him always leads to me apologising only because I had enough of that!

It’s not the horoscope, it’s the person. You are with a man who sounds controlling. Your choice is really to leave him. Why try to fix a toxic relationship. It takes two to make a relationship work. If he isn’t going to be concerned with your best interest why should you turn yourself into a pretzel to try and be with him? If you are thinking about keeping your options open that means you aren’t all in to this relationship. So just move on.

Thanks girl. I’ve only been friends with other scorps so I’ll wait and see before I move on to the Virgo. I do appreciate his honesty with me. He’s just very closed off, which is how I am, but I don’t have any negative vibes from us.
The Virgo needs a bit more time dating and/or being single. I’m his friend, we have had the talk but nows not the time. My best friend is a Virgo, I can see the similarities but this guy is very sensitive and thoughtful. He looks tough but he’s so sweet. …
well enough about that!
I hope everyone on this blog finds love and peace!

I’m an Aquarius dealing with a Scorpio for the past 18 months. I could relate to everything that has been mentioned here. The typical scorp male will initiate the chase, get in touch every moment, would show you extreme care and devotion until one fine day when they will realize they can’t be with you anymore. By then, the woman has completely invested her time, energy, and money into that one single person. And the worst part is, they won’t even give you a proper reason for leaving the relationship abruptly. Since I’m an Aqua, I take time to fall in and out of love. And also, I’m a bit egotistical person. Initially I kept asking him why he wants to end it. Without proper closure it gets terrible, I desperately needed a reason. But he was clueless. He kept saying, “you’re a nice person,but i can’t be with you.” So I stopped communicating and found that he’s still sticking around. Now, the situation is like we kiss whenever we meet but we don’t discuss love or commitment. We discuss our careers, families, friends, and life overall. I don’t know what’s my status in his life. But one thing I’m pretty sure of is, I’m losing the affection I was felt for him. That attraction, that care, that devotion is gradually decreasing. I just hope it vanishes altogether one fine day and I could feel free again. Oh, forgot to mention, recently I found out that he tried dating another girl in my absence and it failed miserably because the girl was sticking to him like glue which made him feel uncomfortable. Also, as I’ve pulled away from him, he has again started to initiate conversations and small talks. So, basically he’s confused and fickle minded. That’s ok, but that trait of his is confusing me and I hate that. Hope to get rid of my feelings for him very soon.

Hi,

My BF of two years and I had an argument over the situation people were in due to the corona virus and I thought he was insenstive to be making jokes about it and it was upsetting me. I told him that his comments are upsetting me, he said, sorry I won’t joke with you about it…to which I asked if you would joke to someone else about it and if you even realise what’s going on with people that are dealing with it! So he apologised again.

Yesterday night I came back from a party and called him to tell him that I am back home (as he wanted me to), he then went on getting upset that all his mates and even his mother afind his jokes funny and I must be on my periods to not be able to take a joke…then he explicitly revoked his apology saying that he thinks he did nothing wrong!

This morning he started pulling out all the messages from our chat messages where he thinks I was on periods and we had conflict. I then messaged him that periods are not monthly thing its different for all women 21-35 days and eh don’t even know when I am on my periods and I am not at the moment and he is acting like a male chauvinist and then thanked him for ruining my day.

He then messaged me asking “want to have a call? no shouting or anger?” I am very mad at him at the moment and some of you might feel that this is immature but actually he does goes mental over apologies. He demands a lot of apologies and wants to give none.

I wanted to ask that I do not know what to do? talk to him? do not talk to him? respond to him or do not respond to him?

If it matters I am a Leo and he is a ScorpioHi,

My BF of two years and I had an argument over the situation people were in due to the corona virus and I thought he was insenstive to be making jokes about it and it was upsetting me. I told him that his comments are upsetting me, he said, sorry I won’t joke with you about it…to which I asked if you would joke to someone else about it and if you even realise what’s going on with people that are dealing with it! So he apologised again.

Yesterday night I came back from a party and called him to tell him that I am back home (as he wanted me to), he then went on getting upset that all his mates and even his mother afind his jokes funny and I must be on my periods to not be able to take a joke…then he explicitly revoked his apology saying that he thinks he did nothing wrong!

This morning he started pulling out all the messages from our chat messages where he thinks I was on periods and we had conflict. I then messaged him that periods are not monthly thing its different for all women 21-35 days and eh don’t even know when I am on my periods and I am not at the moment and he is acting like a male chauvinist and then thanked him for ruining my day.

He then messaged me asking “want to have a call? no shouting or anger?” I am very mad at him at the moment and some of you might feel that this is immature but actually he does goes mental over apologies. He demands a lot of apologies and wants to give none.

I wanted to ask that I do not know what to do? talk to him? do not talk to him? respond to him or do not respond to him?

If it matters I am a Leo and he is a Scorpio

You can make that statement for any fight!! Sometimes the reason sounds lame when it has underlying issues. I am not hopeful about ours anymore as we conflict over things a lot. He keeps the score and I can’t take this anymore. I feel very anxious and not sure if saying anything to him is even going to be helpful.

I’m usually not one to believe in astrology but for some reason it always gets Scorpio men right. My first ex was all the negative traits of a Scorpio. Lying, insecure, manipulative, hypocritical. Simply the worst.

There are many scammers on online dating. He asked you for access to your professional network and then for a lot of money. You’d never met in person. Please read up on dating scams and be careful. You did the right thing, keep him BLOCKED. It has nothing to do with astrology, he didn’t want to talk to you if he can’t rip you off and get your money. He hoped to guilt you by saying he doesn’t trust you, so that you’d respond by fighting for him and proving your trust by sending money, but in reality he’s just describing himself… HE cannot be trusted. I am sorry this happened but glad you didn’t send any money!!

I just got divorced from my beloved Scorpio man. Who would have thought that between my sad crying times I am high-fiving myself. Honestly NEVER AGAIN!!!! It is horrible!
Being a Pisces I tried every loving way possible, then every sound, responsible, attentive way possible, and then even getting mean, screaming, silent treatment (like him) you name it….this guy after 5 years of relationship (2 married) still tells me I don’t love me and troughs fits every two days!!! Why? because I should be tied to his ankle and be the motivator for him to be happy…..excuse me??? Don’t you have a life of your own as well?

I had it…and then after he literally screamed at me he hates me and throughs his wedding band on my face, he says I am a quitter!!! Comes with roses the next day and when I don’t accept them he throughs them at my desk and leaves laughing, mocking me.

That is the last time I saw him. Communication is texting and he is soooo hateful.

I love this man, who knows why, and I tried to show him all I felt for him (never enough) plus I love sex, but not every day!

I don’t want to see him because probably we would end up fighting like dogs and having sex.

Terrible!!!

@Shayla, Why did you try to reconnect with this Bozo, really?

I am Virgo.