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Raven
@Mae Hoffmann, Why do you stay with a man you don’t trust?
Tony
I am reading all this and find most of it hard to believe. I am a Scorpio Man Dating an Aries Woman. We have been dating for 8 months and she has gone silent on me 3 times now. The second time she broke up with me. Each time after a week she has contacted me begging for me to take her back or asking me not to hate her. She keeps claiming she is afraid of being hurt but I don’t think that’s the case. 3 Years ago she lost her husband in a bike accident. He was high on weed and went left of center. She warned me that when it got close to the anniversary of his death I might not hear from her. My problem is I have always allowed her to talk about him without being jealous, but I am supposed to be her significant other now, and she should turn to me for support. Instead, every time she goes silent I feel I have done something to cause it. She hasn’t spoken to me in 3 days now except for her responding to one text I sent her. She started a new job this week working from home and I asked her how it went on her first day. She said good then told me she dreamt about her father who passed way in January and her husband who passed away 3 years ago. I’m sorry but I have done nothing but be there for her and tell her that I love her, only for her to back off and go silent. A week after her silence and me not contacting her she reaches out with some excuse and asks for forgiveness. The second time she did this really affected me so I had to back away from my emotions so I wouldn’t get hurt by her again. Everything people have said about Scorpio Men I have eperienced from this Aries Woman.
Ada
I have been “best friends” with a scorpio male for 3 years, online only. I am in love with him. He’s incredibly confusing, has stated that he loves me but then later clarified as a friend BUT we speak every day, he made us a shared playlist on Spotify, have weekly movie nights, will watch girlie shows with me and let’s me choose what to watch more often than not, has sung to me when I couldn’t sleep etc . He used to be complimentary towards me but completely stopped. I’ve asked him to meet and he’s made promises to do so but has never gone through with it. Once when he was drunk he said he doesn’t trust himself in a hotel with me. I feel like he’s my soul mate and that our relationship isn’t really a “friends” kind. He’s flirted with me a bit and even once told me he’d sleep the best he’s had in years if I were next to him but if I flirt at all he will go silent for days .I once blocked him and he made another account to tell me that he needs me, but it’s like every time he’s forced to be emotionally vulnerable he punishes me for it by acting cold for weeks or months. It’s affected my self esteem at times and I find myself wondering why I’m not good enough and what I’ve done wrong . I genuinely can’t tell if he likes me only as a friend or if he feels more but just thinks it wouldn’t work, so denies it. I’ve mentioned my feelings and he’s said it’s normal for men and women to become confused in friendships and kind of acts as though my feelings are shallow. I’ve considered just going no contact but I really love him and can never go more than a few days. Would a scorpio deny having feelings like this? I am an objectively beautiful and outgoing woman . I don’t think that physical attraction is an issue. He’s told me I am beautiful, hot etc. I would love advice or someone to talk to about this
Raven
@Ada, You’ve not met this person in-person?
You only communicate online?Ada
Yeah, we’ve never met
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