What Men Desire Most In A Woman

hey, so i was reading the article listed as the title above n within this written piece was a quote from a man who studies relationships etc.
he was basically saying in order to make a man stay interested in u; u gotta make em feel some good emotions when near u. apparently if ur too kind or nice or whatever they’ll lose interest. they’ll feel as though u need them. read the article to get the gist of it. i agree this does happen.

what i disagree with is the “making him” part. if this man is losing interest then allow him. obviously he wasn’t really worth ur time since he’s already tryna leave. don’t stay with someone who u feel doesn’t appreciate u. find someone u can be u around. find ur bestie. just like a guy can tell ur not it, so can u. if u as a woman are questioning what u did wrong or how to make it better then maybe u should reevaluate the person ur with. if they make u feel as though ur not worth it then that’s fine, u can find someone who will make u feel worth it.

ur just gonna have to look, easier said than done obviously. it takes time, notice the guys ur dating. ask urself why u choose these guys, notice the patterns u have or tend to flow to. identify the traits of the guys u don’t like then the ones that u do. n i mean personality traits not physical ones.

ik that from reading this not much is gonna change. u may have added a little something to ur perspective but honestly it’s up to u. all ur choices, even the bad ones are urs to have n keep. if u decide to try n figure it out(very hard to do so, so if u go for it then ik u got this. one step at a time) then that’s great, if u don’t then that’s great. lol I hope u have a good one