What should I do if this guy I started dating keeps asking me out every 2 weeks?


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    Teodora Todoroska

    I just started seeing a guy and I have been on 6 dates till now. He asks me out every two weeks altough he has free time. He always texts me first and seems interested when we see eachother. I want someone who is serious with me and makes me his priority. I don’t know should I say something about it to him or give him some time and see how things will work out?

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    AngieBaby

    Going on what you’ve said… after 6 dates and he’s only asking to see you every two weeks, it’s enough evidence that he’s not that interested and only sees you as part time entertainment. Next time he asks you out, just tell him you don’t feel like this is going anywhere and you two aren’t looking for the same things from dating, and that it would be best if you stopped seeing each other. He may protest and try to step up, but unless he has a very good explanation that you believe for why he’s not seeing you every week and being more attentive, then I’d still decline to see him again because it’s likely he’s only making the attempt because it’s human nature to want what’s taken away.

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    Raven

    You don’t have to accept…

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    Tammy

    Nxt time he suggsts meeting aftr 2 weeks decline.. and see what he says or does next. Twice a month meeetings show hes just not that into you. So dont overly invest into this guy unless he steps up.

    #935907 Reply
    mama

    Does he have kids? Maybe he’s keeping dating and parenting separate.

    If you want someone who is serious and wants a relationship, you may want to move on. Even if he did have kids and not able to see you every couple of weeks, that doesn’t match what you want.

    We women are very good at trying to make square pegs fit round holes rather than moving on to someone who actually fits what we’re looking for.

    If it were me, I would personally wish him luck and happiness and keep myself and my heart available for what I was truly looking for.

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    Liz Lemon

    My bf was only available every other weekend when we started dating because of his custody schedule. He made a point of taking me out (sometimes twice) during the week if he had his son the coming weekend. If a guy is into you, he makes an effort to see you.

    It doesn’t sound like this guy has given you an explanation for why he only sees you every 2 weeks. I agree with the others that he probably isn’t that interested. I’m sure he enjoys your company, or he wouldn’t ask you out, but he isn’t escalating his interactions with you. Anyway if you are looking for something serious and want to be a guy’s priority– this isn’t your guy. I would move on and date others.

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