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Amanda.
Blimey
Been seeing this guy for a few weeks. Been on 6 dates. We’re exclusive. Shagged on 5th date and the sex was crazy. But……..what now?
I can’t help feeling I’m over invested. I mean, upon reflection, 6 dates is not very much is it? The situation has been confused by the fact that after the 1st date, the next 5 dates included sleepovers (although not sexual activity until date 5) and thus included not just dinner but also sleeping in the same bed, breakfast together the next day etc.
Khadija
I can see why you feel this way.
Being exclusive after dating a few weeks does seem like a lot to me.
Perhaps try slowing down an bit and focus on getting to know him.
peggy
If you both are happy and have talked and want to keep being together-than what is the issue?
just me
slept with my BF on a fourth date, 6th date had naughty sex in the car…. 9th date he met my kids…. 12th date we moved in together(unofficially). March we are getting married. All in one and a half year. Don’t focus on time and all. Keep your eyes and ears open and keep looking for red flags
alia
Rest assured the true colors will come out in time;) give the guy some time to mess up before you toss him. If you feel over-invested, now is a good time to focus on a new hobby.
just me
Having a negative set of mind subconsciously makes thing go bad. I do believe there are soul mates out there with whom we can fall in love quicker than anyone else. I think keep yourself intact and be aware of the surroundings and just live your life happily.
Blimey
@Just Me
That is what happened here. I simply fell in love with him very quickly, and he with me. But when you read all these dating sites it says that falling too quickly or feeling sparks is somehow bad, and that you should pace yourself and so on.
Amanda
“Only fools rush in…but I can’t help…”
Seriously, though. You think you are in love after only 5 dates? This is probably infatuation, so be cautious. That said, infatuation can turn into love so there might not be anything to worry about. Just keep your head on your shoulders.
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