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December 13, 2019 at 3:02 pm #780549 Reply

anonymous

If I ask him if we’re seeing each other this weekend and he says yes, but we never confirmed on a day, is it possible he was just polite and really doesn’t care? Or should I have insisted on asking when?

December 13, 2019 at 4:01 pm #780552 Reply

Dangerouse

Obviously no, wait, see if he steps up and invites you for a real date, or, if he waits until the last minute then texts to hang out.

Will y accept if he waits till the last minute then wants to hook up? Or do you only accept real dates?

Because as of now, you have no date planned. Does he assume you are sitting by your phone and will jump when he finally texts you?

December 13, 2019 at 4:13 pm #780554 Reply

anonymous

What do you mean by obviously, no? I asked if we were seeing each other, he replied yes. I didn’t ask when but now I feel like I should have because I initiated it. But then he asked if I wanted to go out with him this weekend, and I said yes. But again we didn’t say when. Poor communication or no interest?

December 13, 2019 at 4:20 pm #780556 Reply

Dangerouse

Obviously no because it’s his job to contact and suggest plans. So you wait and observe his level of courtesy and interest.

December 13, 2019 at 4:25 pm #780557 Reply

anonymous

Even if I initiated first?

December 13, 2019 at 4:30 pm #780558 Reply

Dangerouse

Do you think he is right now worrying and waiting to hear from you? Let him man up if hes interested.

Do you feel he won’t spend time with you this weekend unless you give him a nudge?

Don’t do his work for him.

December 13, 2019 at 5:30 pm #780560 Reply

Ianthe

When exactly did you ask him this? How long have you been seeing each other? At weekends? How reliable and consistent is he normally?
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