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Nina.
Nina
Hi everyone
So I have been chatting with this guy on a dating app and he seemed cool and cute. He offered to have a video call and I said OK but he didn’t call or text the day we were supposed to talk and I didn’t either. The next day he texts me telling me we didn’t chat with a disappointed face I said yeah it’s true and he asked if we could do it this week, I said OK. We agreed on the day and a time (I had to confirm a specific hour). The day comes and nothing I write him a hello to let him know I am here and waiting no response. 2hours later he writes me telling me he is sorry and he slept too much and how was my day. I don’t get why he is doing this he asks for a video call but don’t show up but texts me after! Why not just ghost? Why are men like that ?!
Raven
He’s not a man, he’s a boy… Move forward & be glad he’s shown you who he is right off the bat.
Tallspicy
Once you stop wasting energy about why people are the way they are and separate it from you, you will be a lot happier
Khadija
What about a date, all this effort for a phone call.
Cut this off now, he is clearly wasting your time.
Maddie
Too many strikes before you even meet, he’s out. He’s probably not “manipulating” you, but that doesn’t mean he’s not wasting your time. Just unmatch, block, whatever, and don’t worry further about him.
AngieBaby
Most likely he’s not for real – catfish – or he’s in a relationship already. In any instance, he’s testing to see how much you will tolerate and how gullible you are. In online dating, I say they get two strikes not three and he’s had his two. Cut him off and forget about him like the others have said. You have to shrug this stuff off in online dating, so much noise. You can’t take it personal or get caught up in trying to analyze it. You interact and see what happens. A lot of times it’s going to be: doesn’t meet my standards. Simply delete, block and move on.
Nina
You’re all right but sometime human nature puzzle me I really don’t get some people.
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