When he calls other woman beautiful but you…

Hi anonymous

He is cheating dear. I’m sorry. He is not proud of you and he is hiding you. Leave this evil person. You deserve someone who’ll show you off and respect you.

My fella is exactly the same , he will blantenltly watch other much younger girls , tell his mates what he would like to do to them, pays other women compliments , turn his back on me while he watches them etc . I have been with him 4 years now and it’s wearing thin . We live together and he texts me lovely things , tells me he loves me etc, but never to my face!
I’ve spoken to him several times about how he makes me feel, degraded, second best ,fat, old etc . He just says it’s all in my head and I’m his soul mate , he does not want anyone else and it’s just banter ,, but it’s hurtful,upsetting and makes me feel like I’m nothing to him when we are out . Sadly ,very recently I have been taking a step back and thinking about myself instead of what he’s doing,who he is talking to etc as it’s making me jealous and paranoid, which before I met him was something I never felt. I think it’s time for me to leave 😧

I have been w my bf 15 years we met when we were both married, now both divorced and living together 4 years now , he always had a wadering eye and i knew that , but past few years he doesnt compliment me but makes it a point of making sure i know he’s checking out other women!!! WTF is wrong w these guys , people tell me all the time how beautiful i am n i dont let it go to my head n he hears it to n try’s taking my compliments!!! Such a moron and im so sick of this alcholic loser n looking to get away asap!!!! Sick of him trying to push me down due to his own insecurities!!! He sucks!!!

He cheated with you and now he is cheating on you. It’s called karma.

IT IS THE HUSBAND’S OBLIGATION TO TELL HIS WIFE ALL THE TIME THAT SHE IS BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nothing you can do, if he doesn’t find you beautiful you won’t make him say it. Some men feel it is below them to do that.

Competition. Men need competition.

Instead of being upset and insecure, telling him how he hurts you. Act like men do. They take action, they don’t sulk. Start flirting around and do it right in front of him a couple of times. You’d have a very different conversation then, I promise LOL

My husband admitted to an emotional affair with someone then went on to say he was attracted to many others through his life. He told me he can not give me the same attention as them because they are beautiful and I am not. He never tells me I am beautiful Married 40 years. Need advice

My ex husband never told me l’m pretty yet guys l dated after him always said it. One bf told me he always wanted to date a model or Playboy Bunny. He always called me gorgeous. I just assumed my ex didn’t really love me. I’ll never know either bc he never said it.l was with him from age 25 to age 62.

If man is compliementing other women thier was a time when he was complimenting you till you get into relationship with him. The fact is man donot value women once they know she is mine they take women for granted and thats the biggest mistake they do.complimenting other person in healthy if the other person your mutual friend ,relative or a celeb. A man who truly loves his women will never do this thing in front of her he knows what he is speaking amd what impact it would make on her .And also if he loves you he will not be interested in other women or he will get so busy with you and family ,career he will not do such things .

The same thing happened to me. Once he pointed out to someone and said she is everything I want in a woman. He told that to me. I was his girlfriend back then. Glad I dumped him. Don’t stay with someone who can not see how lucky he is to have you.