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Mina.
Phillygirl
I don’t think you understand the concept of breaking up.
If you ended it because you weren’t happy and felt heneeded to get his head out of his a$$, then it makes no sense that you’d expect him to come crawling back begging forgiveness.
Obviously this breakup was the right choice, and he wasn’t interested in trying to patch things up in any way.
From now on it would be a good idea to screen guys better in the first place, and walk as soon as you realize they are not a good fit.
I think you broke up with him hoping it would “make him see the light” and it backfired. But that’s a good thing because I can’t even understand why you’d want him back, based on the description of your relationship.
Sounds like good riddance and you need to move on.
Lily
How did you get it into your head that a person who got dumped is supposed to come crawling back? If that were the case you would never have people in relationships that break up! Lol
Jade
Now you think he should apologize to you? That’s just crazy talk…
Jade
Why would he wish you Merry Christmas? The original post was in April. Update says break up was 2 months ago… Definitely crazy talk.
Phillygirl
Yup, crazy
Grace
Meant to say no Happy Birthday, not Merry Christmas. Ooops. yeah that doesn’t make sense.
I realize now that the guy was a total loser. Saw lots of red flags at the beginning but got sucked into him saying he loved me all the time. Sometimes I feel like I am the loser for sticking around him and hoping.
Am going to stay off dating men totally. I don’t know who to trust. Living my life like Sherlock Holmes is not my idea of happiness.
Hopeful
Since you’re the one who ended it, why would he think that you would be wanting to get back together?
I’m assuming when you broke up with him, he took it as you not wanting to be in the relationship anymore. Hence,- the lack of reaching out.
kaye
In following your original post from April it had been 2 months. So here we are 6 MONTHS later and you’re still thinking about this guy? He sounds like a loser! You say there are reasons why you got rid of him. Focus on those and move on already!!
“If I wanted him back why the heck should I be the one to beg, chase and put my life on hold? I have been waiting for him to come back and apologize and explain things about the lying.”
And new flash.. you are putting your life on hold here!! STOP IT!!! The best piece of advice I’ve ever gotten is that life becomes easier why you learn to accept the apology you never got.
Don
She dumped me 2 moth ago and didn’t contact me after that .i want her back and what should I do . Should wait till her contact me?
Mina
What ended up happening?
Raven
They went their separate ways & are happy now…
Who the F knows, this post is 3 years old!
Mina
I’m high. Hopefully she’s matured enough by now
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