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    Bvc438

    Why would a guy give me mixed signals, glance, flirt with me, suggest to hang out without making specific plans, be nice one day and mean/avoid or look at me angrily the next, and be hot&cold on text? Sometimes he’d flirt with my friend in front of me too. And say some weird stuff insinuating that I don’t love him, why this game/manipulation? Many times I felt like he was just stringing me along. On the other hand it makes no sense to me, to act like this for months. I flirted back and showed some interest, I said yes when he suggested to meet. I thought he’d suggest a date, place and time but it never happened. When he talked to me again I got pissed, ignored him and went no contact, we don’t talk anymore. He looked like a nice guy and seemed genuinely interested sometimes but I’m probably a fool here. Why do they come crawling back only when I get fed up for good? And then get all mad because you’ve had enough and want better? It was so emotionally draining that I just couldn’t handle it anymore. The worst part is that I keep blaming myself but at the same time I think I did the right thing because I thought he actually wasn’t really that interested. I don’t know anymore.

    #935372 Reply
    Marie

    You should ignore this kind of people.

    “Why do they come crawling back only when I get fed up for good? And then get all mad because you’ve had enough and want better?”

    Probably because they are toxic. You deserve better. Just move on and love yourself more. Go out with people who are fun to hang out with.

    #935374 Reply
    Raven

    These types of people aren’t worth your time, energy, headspace…

    You did nothing wrong, except entertain a jerk.

    #935381 Reply
    M

    “You did nothing wrong, except entertain a jerk.”

    😂🤣Oh my god, that quote should be blown up to billboard size and put up in cities all over the world…

    I can’t stop laughing out loud. 😂🤣😂 Where were you with this advice my whole life Raven?

    The number of times this has been relevant to me in the past, I could have this engraved on my tombstone when I die. 😂😂😂😂

    Excellent. You’re on fire today Raven! 🔥💖😄

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