Why did he offer me his jacket?

He offered his jacket because you said you were cold. This does not necessarily mean he likes you… if that’s what you were implying.

@Miss_Aspiring 100% understood. Some people say he was just being nice and some people say he was being flirty. That’s why it’s confusing to me.

Not really? But then again, I’m not good at picking up signals at all lol. He talks to me sometimes and once we exchanged some flirty eye contact.

No don’t read anything into that, He sounds like just a nice guy who gave a young girl his jacket because she said she was cold. Did he asked you for your phone# or tried to talk to you at any time during the evening?

Do not go reading into his actions, and assuming he likes you. you will only get disappointed.

If he really kike you in that way, he would find a way to communicate it to you

He is flirting, but don’t read too much into it. It is a little too much analyzing for a young girl. Just flirt back. Next time you see him say you wish it was cold outside and have a longer than usual eye contact and smile mysteriously. He will be on the clouds for a week. lol

Lol I remember being like this when I was young.

Sweetie while I can appreciate your young minded enthusiasm and eagerness when it comes to boys…he’s just a boy! Remember that. You will meet many many boys and then men as you get older, and he probably won’t be the first to offer you a jacket. He might have been flirting, he might just be being friendly, none of us are mind readers so it’s hard to tell. But don’t get so worked up over a small interaction because you will drive yourself crazy. Just remember that he was sweet to you and you shared a moment and If there is more to come from that then it will happen naturally.

Okay everyone! I have an update. Today, I saw the guy at school for the first time in 5 days (I hadn’t seen him since the party). I was sitting behind him with a group of friends at a table and he was also chatting with a group of friends at a table. He kept turning his head to look at me. Sometimes, I would ignore him. But other times, when I would look at him, he would already be loping at me. Why does he do this??? Why does he want to catch my eye? He didn’t even try to talk to me, so if he’s not going to talk to me, why would he keep trying to catch my eye??? It’s annoying.

Also, he is a really outgoing and popular guy in school. He’s good looking, he’s fit, and the whole school knows him. He is charming, flirty, funny, and outgoing. I mean, I’m pretty much exactly like him, but even I sometimes think he’s “flirting” with me just because he knows he’s hot and that he’s not serious about flirting with me. I would know, because I do it pretty often.

@redcurleysue Haha awwwww :) Such a young, beautiful love story. I know this is a weird thought, but…he is so popular in school and he hangs out with a lot of other pretty girls. AND he most likely knows he’s hot and he’s super confident. I can tell. He comes off as confident, flirty, charming, but also sweet and funny.

Sometimes, I feel like I’m imagining it all in my head, I’m imagining him looking at me and I am reading too much into how he lent me his jacket. You know what I mean? Is that weird for me to think that way?

@kaye Thank you!!! Lol I guess so :) But what do you think? Why do you think he is always trying to catch my eye?

@kaye Haha lol :) But could it also be because he finds me attractive? Let’s be honest here.

Lol.. Exhausting…
Now I know why I chose not to have kids… Why? Why? Why? :-)