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    Louise Robinson

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    Two months ago I matched with a woman on tinder.
    We started chatting and spoke daily.
    She would ring me and we would chat a few times a day,especially on weekends when we were off work.
    We had a date and it went well and we chatted the whole time and laughed.
    We quickly organised another date for Sunday (two weeks ago we booked ) I booked and paid a £20 deposit for our table.
    We chatted about it a lot and she said she was excited and would sent me screenshots of drinks she thought I would like.
    She said she wanted to come with me car shopping as I’m a soft touch and didn’t want them to rip me off.
    She told her mum and friends about me.
    Told me I was going to love her nephews.
    Spoke about which side of the bed I would have
    So obviously I assumed she liked me.

    Then last Thursday she asked if I wanted to go for a late night drive but I was at work so said I couldn’t but was excited to see her next.
    She would send me “morning gorgeous “ texts etc
    Then Saturday she started posting snaps on Instagram of her in a towel and pics you would put on it you were trying to impress people.
    Then she tagged a girl in a song.
    Anyway didn’t think much of it but noticed from Friday she wasn’t that chatty.
    Reading texts and replying ages later.
    I noticed it and had a gut feeling she was talking to this girl.

    Yesterday she texts “sorry I’m just not ready to date,will you delete my number”
    I asked if she had met someone else and she said no.
    Then she blocked me on everything.

    I looked on tinder and low and behold there she was.
    With a updated pic she sent me two weeks ago.
    Her account later disappeared

    What did I do wrong?
    Did her head get turned by this girl ?
    Do you think that’s why she blew me off?
    How did she go from non stop talking,being excited for our next date,talking about the future to nothing.
    Just gone,blocked
    I feel so disposable
    I know we only spoke for two months but she made me believe she wanted to see where it went.

    #857516
    Louise Robinson

    Both in our early 30s

    #857540
    ANM Staff
    Keymaster

    I’m sorry you’re encountering this situation. However, I need to point out that I’ve addressed you before; please see this post.

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