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Leanne
Long story short, we met on a dating app. We talked then eventually met up for lunch.
It went okay, until he stood me up for the second meet up. He tried to give me the typical bull excuse and I called him out. He never spoke to me afterwards. I unmatched and Unfollowed him. I hardly block people unless I really cared about them and I’m deeply or they’re breaching my boundaries, I usually just Unfollow.
Several months later I’m seeing someone and we decide to go ‘Insta Official’ and look whose name pops up on my story. Seriously?
I just don’t understand why guys do that honestly.
It’s not the first time I’ve seen this behavior on me or even friends.
They move on and suddenly their exes starts liking their social media posts or the guys who had been breadcrumbing them and blowing hot and cold start acting weird or even angry
Do they expect us to wait for them to make up their minds or they’re arrogant enough to believe they were the only one we wanted?
AngieBaby
Why does the behavior of someone you met once even matter to you enough to irritate you and why are you wasting your precious time and energy giving this guy any more thought??
The simple answer is it’s human nature for people to suddenly want what they can’t have.
NEXT! :)
Dex
Girl I can so relate! We all get stuck in our heads sometimes. I had the most amazing evening with this moron(sorry) a month or two ago, we texted a bit after, but that was it. Of course about a week ago he had the nerve to text, out of the blue, a long message with no apology or explanation of why he is suddenly reaching out again. NEXT!
You might ask why next? Did he do anything wrong? Was it a party foul? No, it’s just that’s not what I want and it’s not good enough for me. And I know that, and so accordingly I didn’t even respond but of course I was thinking of him a few days ago. They always do this. He and I have major chemistry but he is bad for me so I have vowed to stay away, another one of the reasons I did not respond. But I digress:)
As for you L- my thing is, we’re all human and we all have thoughts, but why on earth are you still thinking about him so much that it bothered you? And then you POSTED! Big thank you to AngieBaby, she is exactly right- this is precious time and energy. So why are you devoting it to this? Is it because you feel like this is the guy you really wanted? It wasn’t just nothing to you? Something else? Just food for thought. While you’re at it it’s never too early to ask if your current situation is still working for you- always check in with yourself and ask if you’re happy, well, and if this is truly serving you/what you want. Know your worth and do not settle for a guy who’s not good enough for you.
Keep us updated, curious in your response!
-Dex
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