Why does he ignore me at parties?


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    Sara

    So there is this guy! (As always lol)
    We’ve been friends for around a year now and I’ve had a crush in him for a while.

    He’s a very easygoing person, very friendly with everybody, likes to laugh and joke around.

    I have no idea how he feels about me, but sometimes I can’t really help but think he likes me back. It’s just the way he is with me. He always acts like a bit of a clown trying to make people laugh, but I feel like with me he trying ten times harder. He’s ways trying to make me laught and catch my attention. He’s always teasing me and very touchy (not in a bad way) trying to be close to me and seem to really like my company. We have a lot of fun together and he’s always asking me to stay longer to keep him company or not go so soon in our environment which is a riding school. Here is where the down side of the story is. Our professional realationship status is trainer-student. Don’t worry not in a creepy weird way, he’s only a few years older than me. I’m 22 and he’s 26.

    So well this week all week he was extra especial with me so I was feeling really good and kind of positive that he might actually like me back.
    But yesterday we had a party with our close group of friends all from the riding school. And he ignored me completely. As if I wasn’t even there he acted like I didn’t exist. With everyone else he was just he’s normal self.
    I realize it’s always the same story when we go to a party with our friends. We’ve never gone out alone only the two of us and to be honest I think he treys to avoid it. Though we do spend a lot of time alone at work and it’s never awkward.
    Our friends are always teasing us telling him that I like him though I always act it cool and play along with it and try to make them believe that it isn’t true and I couldn’t care less and I think I’m convincing. Some of our friends question his heterosexuality and say he much be gay, though I think I know him better and I don’t think he is.

    So what’s the deal? Help please!

    #381652 Reply
    Yams

    I think he likes you, but knows better than to make it known or do anything about it because he might get in trouble with the school/lose his status as a trainer.

    It sounds to me like you are receptive to his advances. So he knows you’re interested back. But for whatever reason he does nothing about it.

    I’d just back off. Stop being so ultra friendly to him at the school. If he asks you why / notices then tell him he ignored you and you didn’t like it. It will make him put his cards on the table

    #381744 Reply
    Aries

    I think he knows u like him so he may flirt because he likes the attention and doesnt wanna make things awkward but he prob doesn’t like u enough to want anything serious.
    Idk why he ignores u at parties maybe he goes hoping to hang out with girls and doesn’t want u around or offend u by flirting w.girls infront of u? Idk. Ask him. Make a joke out of it.

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