Why is he into me when he has a girlfriend?

He sounds like he’s getting ready to cheat on his girlfriend if you’ll let him. At the very least, he is being incredibly disrespectful to his girlfriend and if you end up dating him, he will treat you the exact same way he is treating her, sooner or later. I’d keep it friendly and professional and understand that this man is not that nice if he would do that to his girlfriend. Imagine if you were in her shoes and he was doing that to you. And if you ever end up with him, he will treat you just as poorly.

He sounds like bad news.

Rachel, it sounds to me like all he wants from you is sex. He already made it known he has a girlfriend and she is great. He obviously isn’t planning on leaving her. If you fall for it all you are getting is sex from someone who can’t even respect his girlfriend.

Hi, Rachel. If you have 4 other men chasing you and he has a girlfriend, I’m curious why you have to discuss this with him at all? Why not just step back and remain polite but not continue to engage with him? Do you want him, even though you know he has a girlfriend?

I think it goes back to the same thing. He has no respect for her. He might not care for her enough or he might not like posting pictures of them, simple as that. But the truth is, at this point he has a girlfriend so unless he leaves her (which would be the honorable thing to do if he is fluirting with you and telling you he thinks about sex when he sees you and takes you out to dinner) this guy is not available for a relationship. May be stick to the other guys who are showing interest.

I don’t think you should ask him anything at this point. In fact, I don’t think it’s a good idea to give hin any attention at all.

He may be charming and well liked, but that does not mean he is actually a good guy. My ex is extrremely charming, admired and well liked.

Until you really get to know him and find out he is a narcissitic sociopath. If you were in a manipulative relationship before, this guy should be setting off all kinds of alarm bells.

When someone shows you they are dishonest, unfaithful, or in any way shady you say. No thanks, I’m better than this, don’t need this in my life, buy bye.

He’s trouble with a capital T. He has shown you what kind of man he is. it ‘s not a nice one.

I’m trying to figure out why your allowing a guy who’s in a relationship and already let it be known that sex is his intentions have your number in the first place??? I wouldn’t give this guy the time of day. He seems like bad news.

You know the guy or girl that puts notches on their gun or lipstick case….that is this guy.

He is a borderline sociopath. They do not have real feelings but are extremely charming and can snow a lot of people. They have watched feelings and mimic them but do not possess them.

A person who is flirting with you and has a girlfriend who you should meet does not possess feelings to know how far off that behavior would be. These people are fascinating since they seem to live on the edge but it is simply because they do not have emotions to tell them they are on the edge.

Stay away from this guy – he is real bad news.

Cindy,

You will get more answers if you start your own thread….go to forum and pick a category…scroll to the bottom and name a thread.

I don’t trust any guy who leaves me for another girl. Who says that will not happen again?
Say goodbye to “can’t make up his mind”

Hey.

Rachel, it sounds like you a very good looking woman who would have no trouble attracting men. Are you that flattered by his attention?

Why are you even considering this person? Talk to him about why he has not told you this or that? Good that he did tell you, so throw him away like a grenade as far away as you can.

Thanks for your input ladies! I shall stay clear and keep things professional. He attends my classes and is my son’s soccer coach. I made it pretty clear where I stand on the girlfriend.