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Jeanette
Hi there,
So my ex left me for another girl and they are currently still dating. I have moved on and am seeing someone new. He is constantly asking questions about this guy – “Is he talking to you now?”, “what’s he saying?”, “have you spoken since than?”, “what’s he like?”, “are you going to see this guy again?”, “who’s the status about?”, “what did he do?”, “have you seen him again?”, “are you making him dinner?” (Am I sleeping with him) – Why is he getting so jealous and always asking these questions when he chose to be with someone else. Like it’s not fair on me because now he behaves passive aggressive towards me and slates me in some way but what for? He made is bed and now must sleep in it.
Why is he jealous???
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Newbie
Why havent you blocked him? I wouldnt do that as a first step but he is seriously annoying. Who cares why he asks these questions. He dumped you, he deserves to NOT have you in his life. So just be brave a block the dude
Andrea
In case things don’t work out with the new woman, he wants to keep you on the back burner.
kaye
The guy dumped you for another girl he’s still dating and you are entertaining his questions about your love life?!?! Ummm. HELL NO! You need to cut off all contact with him. Tell him he has no business asking you questions about the new guy you’re seeing and you choose to focus on the new guy and not him.
I’ve found it really means nothing when an ex is asking questions about your new love interest. Too many men have an I don’t want her but I don’t want anyone else to have her either attitude and too many women fall for it!! He probably thought he could dump you, see if the grass if greener, then come back if it wasn’t. As you said he made his bed so let him lay in it!!
K
The better questions are, why are you still in contact with him and why do you care what he says or does? He dumped you for someone else! Cut him off already.
But… I’m guessing you still have feelings for him and are secretly hoping that he will realize he made a mistake and come back. That scenario rarely works out.
Colleen
What does your boyfriend think about you talking to your ex?
Ames
Yes why are you even entertaining him. He probably just wanted you to be miserable without him. He gave you one of the worst low blows of all time. And no offense you even talking to him is pathetic. Work on your self worth a little..and cut that loser out of your life. Unless you want to be treated like a throw away doll.
ANM StaffKeymasterMod update: Hi Jeanette, thanks for sharing your story with the community!
I need to step-in because I noticed you’ve posted another thread under a different name recently. That’s really not necessary – please stick with a consistent pseudonym in the future. There’s no reason that the community should not know that you posted under Kayleigh yesterday.
Thanks!
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