Why Is My Guy Friend Ignoring Me And What Should I Do?

My best male friend and I were always social together. We used to meet each other like 4,5 times in week for coffes, or go out on fridays and saturdays(I have a boyfrined, but we are not that good and we will break up soon). Anyways, on thursdays we are used to watch movies, eat pop corns, we were really really close. Wherever he travels, he brings me presents (last one, month ago). We had fight few times, but like all friends have. He used to take my hand in public infront of other people and dance with me all night. He behaved like nobody exists when we are out together and our friends saw all of that. Anyways we were (are) just friends and nothing ever happened between us, like sex or someth. We kissed in mouth couple of times, but more in a joke for good night withouth tounge :). He called me on the phone every day when I was out of town, like what I was doing, and that he was bored withouth me (that was during the Chrimas hollidays). I really like him just as a friend.

Later, like 3 month ago when we were out he told me that he has been in love with me like since he saw me(we know each other for 1 year know). I asked him to repeat it and he repeated the same thing like 3 times during that night (he wasnt drunk). He even said that is not a joke (I asked him if it was a joke more times). I didnt say noth. about it, just like-o really, and like ok, we will go out as we did before, like we will take pizza and and we changed the subject. 3 days after that, we met for coffe and he was bit like nervous and flirting, so I asked him if he was serious few days ago when he said that he is in love with me. He pretended that he didnt remember what he said., so when he notcied thats is really stupid that he like doesnt remeber, he said like that was a just a joke (that he is in love). So, I said like ok, it was a joke. I didnt want to force conversaion about it any more. I put in my head, like thta was a joke and behaved according to that.

After all of that, our realtion was quite the same as before, holding hands, dancing, but less sms from his side. Also, I suggested bit more to meet up for coffes than he suggested to me. I even thought that he started to be lees interested generally, but when we meet , he was the same, not distant at all; holding hands, bringing presents, asking me to move to same town he wanna move). So, less sms, sometimes no answer on message, but when we meet, he is all around me and all the same. All our friends believed/believes that he likes me more then friends, because they notice the way he is with me and with them. They even say that he looks at me like he is in love and like I am his centar.

The culmination was for Valentines day, when he brought some small present for me and he was all around me, holding my hands, so he told me that most important thing is to be close to me, like he doesnt care for nobody else. He even invited some his other friend to come on that party, but behaved like nobody exists there. He was all aorund me, touching my leg, hands…Many times he asked if my boyfirend is jeleous and I said no, because we are just good friends. It s true he knowes that we are flirting, but thats it.

The problem is that we havent met each other for one month now, even if I asked him out so many times. He said like that he was busy, so like we will meet some other day.Also, I know that he changed job as well, so I know he is in lot of stress lately and he moved to another flat as well, but I think it s not really ok not to meet for a coffe at least for all one month. He even didnt call to ask how I feel or someth.

20 days ago I sent him sms and asked him if he is avoiding me and if he is angry at me that he can tell me and that I miss him. He answered, like my dear…I am not angry at you at all, I am just busy, and when all this stress pass, I will contact you, so we take coffe. That was 20 days ago and he still hasnt contacted me and probably will not. I just dont know what has happened to him, and why he cant meet anymore?? I gave him the chance to say if it s something, but he is so nice on message and even sends kisses and smile. I also congradulated his birthday and he said thanks and sent me kisses, but no invitation for coffe. I see on facebook that he puts likes on pics of other people, but on mine pics or statuses, he doesnt put any likes. I wrote him tonight if he went out from his “cacoon”, but he hasnt applied yet. What has happened to him??? If he found some new company and became bored of me, why he brought me present just month ago?? He used to always bring someth. to me wehen he goes somewhere. Is it possible that in few days he lost his friend feelings to me??? I dont understand why he sent sms back if he really wants to avoid me? Do not understand noth. at all. We didnt have any fight or noth. like that. He will move from town in couple of months maybe, so I cant even imagine that we will never have a chance to see each other anymore.