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alia
I’m with Newbie, get off Tinder and maybe pause dating for a few months and focus on other things. Nothing is worse than dating a dud after a dud and slowly lose confidence in yourself and worse yet, start hating all men.
I only started attracting quality men, when I truly started focusing on my career, I’ve always been a hard worker, etc. But when I decided to please myself with my career trajectory, instead of pleasing others, did I get a bunch of different men express admiration that I never experienced before.Phillygirl
A man who is “comfortable” does not equal lazy, dirty, unkempt and no effort.
I’ve been in several long term relationships and none of my exes behaved like that.
Your standards are MUCH TOO LOW
Nia
Block the ghost :)
Louisa
The whole thing left me doubting myself.
Wasn’t I pretty enough,attractive enough,fun enough etc etc.
I totally thought he was into me,it was all fake.
Felt such a idiot he had me fooled.Raven
Delete & move forward… Ghosterx are cowards.
Nat
You are NOT listening. It is not about you, it is about HIM. He is a jerk, not you. You maybe foolish, but you didn’t ghost on a person like a moron. Him being a jerk is NOT a reflection on you. There will always be jerks around, you can’t project everything they do onto yourself. All you can do is learn how to recognize jerks and walk away from them. Be more critical. be more demanding. More selfish. Want MORE for yourself. BETTER things, better treatment, etc. Do not ignore signals. The type you are describing is a classical LOSER, do not let his pathetic issues ONTO you. it is not your problem, so don’t make it yours. Get angry at him. And stay angry. This way you won’t fall into a similar trap again.
Crisula
Deleting is nothing
If you were totally serious…you’d block him
every form of communicationIanthe
Another reason is just plain curiousity as opposed to genuine interest. Sometimes I wonder about some of my exes, doesn’t mean I want to get back with them. Some people are just like this. I had a work colleague once who was super nosy about others, even staff she barely knew, given she worked part-time. As someone who generally couldn’t care where mere acquaintances are concerned, I found her fascination with other people’s lives rather strange.
I would block him. Why give him any insight into your life given he ghosted?
Louisa
Isn’t it a strange thing how you become close to someone and then without reason or warning they erase you just like that.
like you all have said I’m going to start wanting more for myself,better people,I’ve removed myself from tinder too.
The majority just want one thing..and I don’t understand the fascination after speaking for 10 mins asking for a picture- it’s so off putting and at that point I end the conversation.It is difficult for me to understand that he is the one with the problem because my self esteem is rubbish so automatic I think it’s me..I’m going to try and work on that.
Millie
I was ghosted after 2 months it is a horrible feeling to be left to the side after treating me so good in the beginning a year and a half later I gain the strength to block him the last thing he was doing was lurking on my Snapchat stories really strong I asked him why is he watching my stories he said I just want to know what you’re up to with heart eye emojis I told him if you want to know what I’m doing you should just call and ask or come see me he said he will but hasn’t seen me yet or called I don’t think he deserves to see my Snapchat it’s like the most effortless way to know how I’m doing without making an effort to be with me he doesn’t deserve it
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