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A guy i was seeing briefly unfollowed me on every form of social media after our breakup and we had some sort of closure afterwards in which he told me he started seeing someone else. I replied that I was happy for him and that there was no hard feelings at all. I haven’t spoken to him since/ did no contact and now he unfriends me on fb a few months later. I thought there were no hard feelings? Why would he do that? Does he dislike me that much?
Raven
My guess:
He’s moving on…vanessa
It may have nothing to do with disliking you. It’s just social media. He’s moved on and dating someone else. Maybe she knows you’re an ex. If you’re not friends in real life, it shouldn’t bother you that you’re not friends on social media. Maybe he doesn’t want exes seeing what he’s up to and seeing his pictures. Nothing personal.
Reminds me of an ex that wouldn’t leave me alone and I couldn’t block his texts at the time with my service provider. After a few ignored texts messages, he sends me “why do you hate me so much?!” And then he subsequently told mutual friends that we didn’t talk anymore because I hated him. Huh? I didn’t hate him, I just didn’t want to talk to him anymore and wanted to move on. He was flattering himself.
Phillygirl
I agree with Raven, he’s moving on. In all likelihood, things are getting more serious with the girl he’s seeing and he’d prefer to focus on that and keep things simple.
Just because there were no hard feelings doesn’t mean he feels it necessary to keep you on FB. You said you were only seeing him briefly, so it’s not like you were big parts of each others lives.
This is why I don’t FB friend anyone casual to begin with. And why I would also delete someone I briefly dated if I met someone I wanted a relationship with.
FB is not real life, but too many people actually live there.
t
why would seeing someone else affect anything? i wasn’t bothering him at all. that girl was sorta a rebound because things fizzled out when he left out of town for a month after we last talked.
Twinkle
Hun, Stop trying to analyze it. He removed you from FB you don’t need to know his reasons. It is what it is.
Leigh
I am not a fan of Facebook and dating. I won’t date anyone on my Facebook page, I won’t friend guys who I have had a date with and it is a horror to see people blowing up Facebook with their “new loves” and then low and behold they are no longer. (sigh). Not to mention everyone poking their nose into your business. It is none their business until an official couple is formed.
Not fan. Be Thankful that you aren’t being tortured by his pictures.
redcurleysue
Oh who cares. Maybe his girlfriend insisted he get rid of all girls on his FB….but who cares? He is history, you have a present life to live.
Slim
Sounds like he cared about you very much. If I broke up with someone I would delete them from social media too. I couldn’t bare to see them, it would be too painful. Some guys love to have rebound chicks lol. He’s got in a relationship when he didn’t give himself time to get over the first one. Then again his girlfriend could of had you deleted….you never know.
shinobi
The same thing happened to me.The guy I had a crush on since college, dug me out of nowhere 4years ago. He would come n go. I thought that was how he is… I thought he liked me cos he made me feel so. Then 2years ago I got to know he has a gf after he updated his relationship status. It hurt me bad but I got over it. And yesterday I got to know he has unfriended me on FB. I am so tempted to ask him why. I know he has a gf but I still like him alot. And I don’t know why the unfriending is so painful.
Anon
You sound young – please don’t use Facebook to analyze anything because we can all go crazy with others.
I unfriend and disconnect even in LinkedIn with guys I have feelings for or seeing potential … so seeing them on social media does not make me feel great. It is just that simple.
Crisula
I don’t think he dislikes you..
He probably wants to make it clear to his current gf that it’s over.
Knowing how ‘important’ fb relationship statuses seem to be now…the girl probably told him to unfriend you
Peggy
Honestly,who cares? You certainly shouldn’t-life is too short for silly stuff like this to waste your time and energy on. Go outside and literally smell the roses.
Crisula
jeeez..this was from June 2016
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