why would a man add tons of hot girls on Facebook?

thank you my dear.i followed my heart,and express my true feelings to him regarding his friendship with hot call girls,he said i was more precious to him,than them,and deleted them…yuuuuuppppiiii.without blaming him..that’s important not to feel threatened and puts on defending mechanisms which practically means,communication is over.oh i am so happy.

I thought I would join in, my bf over the last 4-5 years reguarly adds women to his fb both young and old, and is flirty with them, but where do you draw the line, when he asks them for sexy pics? and then explains it to improve there self esteem, its been a very rocks 4-5 years and is still ongoing. When I explain how i feel , he stops for a short while then carries on a couple of months later

Because he’s trying to hook up… Not a good sign. You should also run a search on which pics he likes…on the FB search bar, type in ‘photos (your bf’s name) likes’… that should give you a very good idea of what he’s up to on FB if he hasn’t changed his settings. You probably also want to check his DMs if possible and monitor how often he’s active. Or you could just dump him. I would.

Me and my borfrie d have been going out for almost 2 years now and ive been having this issue with him adding girls onto his facebook. Its literally so annoying. Each time i would bring it up he would usually try and make me feel bad for asking making me look like an insecure reck! Recently we talked about it and he agreed to delete his facebook and make a new one with his ACTUAL friends. How can i make sure he doesnt do it again? I was also thinking about adding a bunch of guys and play his card and see how he reacts

From my experience, men that do this are either insecure, misogynistic pigs, cheaters and or have extremely low self esteem. Their facebook page is just full of strange women who have no desire to chat with these men, let alone date them. Yet, just having a large friendlist of mostly gorgeous women, somehow makes them feel cool and wanted. I get why men do it, we have always been taught that dating is a numbers game and we walk around every day lookiing at beautiful women with ugly, broke or POS men by their side. “If she will date a loser then damn I can get a woman that pretty too” lmfao. Why do women entertain men like this? Why not look at his friends list and see that 90% of the people are pretty women. That should tell you something about this so called man. No regular ol Joe, hot or not and rich or not, will have or should have 3-5k women on their profile compared to maybe 50 men on his friends list. Sadly 40 of those 50 men are guys he doesnt even like. He only added them to wave his fake list of hot women in the other guy’s face ignorantly thinking cyber women he has never met in person are an actual burn to anyone lol. Women should avoid men like this, I know men like this and they are sticking thier thing in any and every place that will allow them. They will leave you for the next cute girl that acceppts their random creepy out of the blue message. You will be treated like a piece of meat, after all these type of men are nothing more than fukboyz. Alot of women fall for their trap too. I thought you all were smarter than that. When a man say oh I just get along better with women, RUN!

Honestly run….

My husband was/is doing this with hundreds and hundreds of women with four different FB accounts. He asked them to be his girlfriends get married and was physically engaged to another women while married to me.

He tried to stop but it’s actually a mental disorder by this stage and he went right back at it and now has two girls that he’s cheating on echo one with the other and still talking to many women on FB. So honestly it’s a mental sickness and unlikely to get fixed.