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Augustgirl
Hi everyone! I would like to have your thoughts on this!! My ex and I have been separated for almost a year now. He broke up with me. We had been together for 6 yeas.Throughout the year,We had minimum contact . I contacted him twice because i wanted to know why he left me because he didn’t told me. He contacted me twice also. I don’t hold grudge against him,i made peace with the situation even though i don’t know why he left me. A few weeks ago,he contacted me out of the blue askin how i am ,my answers were uninterested but polite and he stopped talking to me. He has a new girlfriend for a few months already and he seems quite happy (i think) .Few days after, i was curious and i looked for him on facebook and i realize that he blocked me. I just find that weird but funny at the same time that he would block me on facebook after 1 year and that he seemed to have moved on for a long time now! I would like to have your thoughts on this plz. Why would he blocked me on facebook after all this time. Thanks!
Moon1234
maybe he came across your profile and it bought memories back, either way it seems he is sending you the message to move on, you said he has a girlfriend so let it go for now if he wants to contact you he has a way to do so x
Stefanie
Because he doesn’t want you to see what he’s doing now. You say you’ve made peace with the situation… so move on and don’t look back any more, honey.
Khadija
He blocked you because he has a new girlfriend and has moved forward.
If, you’re over it who cares it’s better this way trust me.Augustgirl
Really? I just find that odd that he would block me after ALL this time.. And also like 2-3 days after he asked me how i am and i seemed not that interested.. I mean,1 year has passed and the “grieving process” is really advanced,well i thought so.. To me,blocking someone on facebook is more in the beginning of a break up ,not after 1year of almost no contact. Don’t you think?
Stefanie
Sweetheart, if you are thinking about it this much, you are not as over him as you believe. Men think and act differently than we do. You’ll never know for sure. Men are simple and there is no deep meaning in this. It could be as simple as, woke up this morning and decided I didn’t want her seeing pics of my life anymore. Never occurred to him before most likely. But he’s got a new GF now.
And what if you knew the answer from him? You’d say, oh. And then you’d keep moving on. Byron Katie says these are the stages of not needing to know any more:
“Don’t know, can’t know, don’t need to know, nothing to know.”
Are you ready for “nothing to know?” When you are, you are truly past it.
Mo
Who gives a **** about facebook? It’s not real life. Move forward.
Amy S
Hi. Maybe he was looking at your facebook and doesn’t want to do so. I blocked my ex for this reason. It was a way of stopping myself from “going there” or maybe his gf asked him to do so. You have to let him go and not think about it now. x
Rose
I also blocked a guy not to have the impulse to go spy on him, lol
Let this go. What do you care?
He’s not in your life anymore.
Lea
I do this when I don’t want the person ever reaching out to me or knowing about my life. In other words, when I want nothing to do with the person.
Bottom line, he has moved on. You should be doing the same. Asking about unimportant things as facebook gives off the impression you’re not completely over him as you say
Can’t say
Honestly, I was talking to this guy for almost 3 months . Not long but I fell for him pretty hard. We spent a lot of time together and connected immediately. One day he called me to go hangout but I couldn’t be there until that night. My crazy ex introduced him to a different girl that night . I pulled up and she was there. I got drunk and cried in front of them . Totally embarrassed myself. That was almost two years ago. They recently broke up and I sent him a Facebook friend request. He accepted it. And two weeks later he blocked me. Idk what to do. It seems like they say if it’s meant to be it’ll be. And they say to forget about it. But it’s been almost two years and he’s the only one in my heart. Idk what to do. If I should tell him and risk it all. Or wait. I need better opinions
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