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Fay
So I had this great first date(as far as I am concerned) with this guy I really like. He seems pretty interested and keep asking me a lot of questions saying that he wanted to know more about me. But the wired thing is that after we went home separately, he never texted to follow up and he didn’t ask me about what I am doing tomorrow when we were on the date (and he is the one who said he is gonna leave for home ..) But when he was with me he seems pretty interested and I just didn’t know where he stands now.
And we didn’t kiss on the date, he never attempted and when I subtly mentioned that he stands relatively far away from me when we walk together, he said ” oh you seem like the type who wanted to take things slow, so I don’t want to do anything you are not comfortable with.) And I didn’t know what to think of it.
What does he mean? Does he not like me?
Should I just wait for him to contact me? Or should I just text him? I am so confused by this guy now.
Help!
Shanaya
Firstly, relax and breathe! If a guy likes you he will text you and pursue you! Till then you live your life and continue dating others! Good luck! xx
Jade
Yes. They will if they’re interested.
Maria
Yes, they will, sometimes right AFTER the date, from the car. But definitely within 24 hours. Do not text him yourself, you already asked him a “strange” question on the first date. Not everyone tries to kiss you on the first date, this does not mean they are not interested. But if they do not text after the date and do not suggest another date within a few days of the first one, then this does mean NO interest.
Khadija
It was only one date. Calm down and allow him to reach out if wants to.
If, he doesn’t the world will not end. It just simply means he wasn’t for you.
Please remember you had a full life before meeting him get back to it in the meantime.Anon
Don’t think about what he wants and what he does. Think about what you want.
Do you want a guy who texts you after the first date? Then don’t text him! Wait, and if he doesn’t text you he’s not right for you. It’s like magic.
m
Every guy is a little different. Him not texting you doesn’t mean anything. Keep dating other people and living your life. If he texts you, he texts you. If not, then you could always reach out to him ONCE after a week or two and tell him you had a great time and if he ever wants to do it again, he knows how to find you. If he doesn’t start leading and asking you out consistently after that, then let him go, though.
one date means nothing to a man… they bond over a long period of time and shared experiences.
Matilda
In my experience, the guys that were really interested in me, made a second date with
me before the 1st date was over. If interested, they usually make contact right away. -
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