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Jk
So I met this guy 2 weeks ago. Everything was great , he was texting me all day and we met up twice. However, each time we met up we had sex. He said he’d like to get to know me better and eventually meet my family and all this. Few days go by and he stops texting. Without me knowing, my friend calls him and asks him if he just wants me for sex or actually likes me. He says yah I like her but it’s like I’ve known her for 2 days. And he said I’m the only girl he’s talking to atm and that he plans on keep talking to me.. I told him how I felt abt him a few days before this incident! That I had feelings for him .. I’m just wondering why he hasn’t called or texted me ??? Did my friend freak him out ??? Serious answers only please !!!
Khadija
First question, how old are you?
Vanessa
Oh my. Doubt he will. The chase is over. Why would he keep trying if you’ve already told him you like him by spilling your “feelings.” Why couldn’t you keep him wondering so he’d have to keep trying. And the friend thing…sheesh. Even more pressure. Men hate that. Nail on the coffin.
Raven
That ‘friend’ is no friend…
buttercup
If I’d meet a guy a couple of times, and his mate caked me to ask me that, I’d be freaked right out! Comes across as extremely insecure or crazy stalker behavior.
Turn it round and imagine yourself in his position. And never tell a guy your feelings until he’s told you his. I’ve made this mistake in the past. It sends them running for the hills!
I would imagine you are quite young, and all these things you will learn with experience.
buttercup
Bloody phone…. Called, not caked!
patsytshirt
honey you and your friend blew it. Big mistake to have sex so soon and even worse to involve your friend in the story. He probably thinks you are one of the whackojobs who will stalk him and act girlfriendish before being exclusive. Guys want easy sex but if it means to deal with a girl who is obsessed they run, that’s too much drama.
Jk
So there is absolutely no chance of him texting me again? Then why did he say only nice things about me to my friend ?
patsytshirt
try to put yourself in his place. Let’s say you met a guy 2 weeks ago, everything was great and you had sex with him. You told him you would like to get to know him better. Then for some reason you got busy, lost interest, you pulled away or something and you stopped texting him because you don’t want to hurt him. Then out of the blue the guy’s friend calls you and confronts you, asks if you like the guy or just wants him for sex. Please tell me how would you react if this happened to you? would you say sh1t about the guy you had sex? you probably would be so shocked with the awkward situation that you would just try to be nice and hung up the call as soon as possible.
Maybe if you stick to ‘no contact’ (don’t call him, no text, no facebook/instagram etc) and if your friend back off and mind her own business, maybe if you disappear from his radar he might text you again. But be aware that it could be just because he wants sex.
Khadija
Well, you and your friend sound very young.
I think things went way too fast and then your friend inquiring about how he felt was the last straw.
In the future try not to sleep wtih a man so soon and after two weks pouring out your feelings is not a good idea.
I think you have a lot to learn about men and dating. If you stick around and read some of these post you will learn something.Gemini615
Let this go. No, there is very little chance he will text you again. It’s too much drama. Men don’t like drama.
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