Will he text me if I stop to initiate?

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October 27, 2015 at 12:03 pm #471159 Reply

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Hi, I got this guy who always busy at work. Ok, at first we used to talk in whatsapp when we just started which is normally guys are like that. After few months of relationships, he then busy working and travelling as he just changed his job. I used to initiate contact first and now as I’ve been disappointed for so many times I stop texting him. But every time I seen him appear online I really want to drop him text again. Is it fine if I continue doing that I initiate contact first or I’ll wait for him to initiate and contact me. Help pls. Thanks

October 27, 2015 at 12:08 pm #471163 Reply

Khadija

Stop contacting him and see what happens.

October 27, 2015 at 2:17 pm #471222 Reply

no name

your chasing in away. but you show confidence in yourself. but i think its best you don’t text and wait it out, if he knows you aren’t chasing him anymore, he may take a u-turn. I had this experience i deleted this guy of snap-chat and didn’t contact him for two weeks and then out of the blue he texted wondering where i was.But again be alert men usually contacted you to make sure you still there an available for when they want you.

October 27, 2015 at 2:28 pm #471227 Reply

V

I agree with no name. Usually when you stop initiating contact with guys and they text you out the blue, they’re just testing the waters to see if you’re still there, not because they “miss you” Because if they missed you, they would make more of an effort to make things right instead of sending one lousy text. I wouldn’t worry about this guy contacting you. Instead I would focus my attention on something more productive.

October 27, 2015 at 2:39 pm #471234 Reply

Maria

Stop chasing him. Guys are acutely aware who does what first. I noticed that, when I go on coffee dates with my online dates, I always ask, did I contact you or you did? They react very noticeably, giving me a very assured answer, so I know this is important to them. Everyone’s done it so far, so lets not be naive, guys do pay attention to all those “power” and “chase” games and they pay a LOT of attention to that. So stop chasing him. I’d even ignore him if he makes a contact, and see what happens.
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