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Raven.
Confused
Ladies,
Few months ago I felt for a guy. We spent two nights together and connected in all levels (no sex only some kisses). He was in a relationship and I felt bad about it, but during these two nights adrenaline was very high so I could not think clearly. I really wish I can just keep this as past, but in few days I will meet him again. We work in the same company, different cities, so we meet for work 2-3 times per year. We have both confirmed we are attending the next meeting and as time approaches I am getting very stressed. On one hand, if he is still in a relationship I should keep distance and act like nothing happened. On the other hand, I had not felt this connection for a long long time and I cannot wait to meet him again and spend time with him. What would you do? After the time we spent together we had no contact.
kaye
He hasn’t contacted you in months. He was in a relationship and you hooked up with him. You are no longer on the adrenaline high you claim made you not think clearly. Now that you are thinking clearly and realize you felt bad about what happened, make it clear to him when you meet again it WILL NOT be happening again. Explain to him it should never have happened in the first place, you made a mistake and as long as he is in a relationship, nothing can happen between you.
But you need to sit down and really consider why you would even want a man who cheats on his girlfriend!! Not to mention this sounds like a long distance issue if you only see each other 2-3 times a year so could you even really trust this man if he dumped his girlfriend and you were in a long distance relationship with him? I think not!
Sensy
He’s kind of showing you that is not very loyal. I would tell him if he’s not happy with his current relationship he needs to end it if he wants to get together, then give a little time.
Raven
Imagine…
That you were the GF a few months ago & he met this chick that he spent two nights with…
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